Please no rude responses. My wife is producing lots of milk for our child.?

Question

I want to suckle (ater the child is properly fed) and feel that type of intamacy with her. She will let me but she said she would be uncomfortable the entire time. I dont want to do it if we both cant be relaxed and enjoy our special time together. Is ther anything i can say or do to change her mind?

Answer 1

Not likely. My husband wanted to try it too, but I told him no because I was having to pump and I was VERY sore and the thought of him even TRYING to touch them made me cringe. If she is not comfortable with it don't mention it to her again. There are other ways to be intimate.

Answer 2

Yes, coax her into it dude. If you aren't comfortable with her, why is she your wife? You need to have more s*x and have more communication. Just say that it's fine and it will only be for a little while and she will like.

Answer 3

WHAT....LOL. what u never got breast fed. That's just to funny, u need to stop wanting to steal ur kids food and get urself a bottle, u sound like a big baby.

Answer 4

Probably not, but you can always keep trying ;-p

My husband was the same way (didn't want to feed necessarily, but wanted to play a lot) and it was always difficult because my nipples were too sensitive I'd always end up laughing instead of getting turned on. Maybe it's just an issue with her sensitivity; maybe they're painful so once you get to them it might be a lot for her to bear. I'm sure she appreciates that she still does it for you even after giving birth. Good luck!

Answer 5

Wow, you made me laugh =) Thanks.

Sorry dude. If that makes her uncomfortable then there's nothing you can do about it.

Answer 6

LMAO, sorry, but this is the first thing that has made me laugh all day. I guess if she says she will feel uncomfortable the whole time there is not a great deal that will stop her feeling that way.

Answer 7

wow. Poor woman. I wouldnt want my husband nursing at my breast!! Thats your childs food! Just have her make you a warm bottle of milk and swalled you and feed you that!

Answer 8

If it makes her uncomfortable then there is nothing you can do.  You drinking her breastmilk will also cause her body to produce more, which means more engorgement and physical discomfort.