Please please, tell me your idea about this message.?

Question

me in my late 20s, he 30.

we are new but had a lot affections...im crazy and live and always noisy...he likes my crazy character.

anyway,i sent him a text message : let me fresh your mind....come here ...closer closer...kiss kiss...Mwah..ok. well...hope you had a good day honey"

so that was that...just outta my naughty character and a way to show him my true feeling...

he didnt come back to me since then...almost 5 days...ok..ok...he is not a texting calling guy...we meet so rare ...and rare calls...

so im so pride...will not call him definitely...but was my message so babish!!! ok i know alittle teasy....but people always do that and it cant take someone away...im sure you have done it before too.

what do you think? has he ignored me just coz of this message or just his character of no no call ,text and will get back when free!

marriage category coz you are more experienced.

Answer 1

He's not interested in you.

Answer 2

I'm sure you really do believe that he likes your personality, which you describe as "crazy" and "always noisy". However, his behaviour is not suggesting that he really is all that drawn to you. He isn't making any particular effort to see you, nor even to call you.

You state that you "meet so rare" and even his calls are "rare".

You sent him a blatantly affectionate message, and he COMPLETELY ignored it.

It's difficult to see what it is that leads you to believe  he likes you.

If this man is thirty, I think he would have found your message a little off-putting and embarrassingly immature. "hope you had a good day honey" was alright I suppose, but the rest of it ... oh dear!  As an earlier answerer noted, it was creepy. And I would add unnatural, stilted and self-conscious too. When this 30 year old man read "let me fresh your mind....come here ...closer closer...kiss kiss...Mwah..ok. well..." I'm sure he really had no idea how to respond, and, evidently, no inclination to respond either. It's a bit juvenile and doesn't sound like a message that a woman in her late 20s would send. He hasn't answerered because he didn't wish to. You need to accept that really, and stop overthinking it. You could always send him a more normal text, and see if he responds. But I don't think it was just this text that was the problem ... your contact with him was "rare" as you stated, even before this. I wouldn't worry about this guy too much. You will meet someone one day who is a better match for your personality.  

Answer 3

Send him a less full-on text and see what happens- how long have you been seeing him? 'Honey' is a little bit like you've been together a long time so could have put him off. 'Let me fresh your mind' doesn't mean anything and would put someone off I think. There is something a bit creepy about the whole text but someone shouldn't ignore you based only on one text, that would be stupid.

Answer 4

I seriously doubt the text you sent damaged the relationship.

And well if it did then the two of you didn't have one to begin with.

I would just ignore him and write him off. If anything it sounds like an uneven balance of commitment has been created between the two of you.

Meaning you like him more then he likes you. So occupy yourself with things other then thinking about him.

Time for you to move on. I wouldn't be surprised if once he realizes you aren't thinking about him anymore he starts to show a bit more affection. If he does it would be wise to keep your distance, stay away from the game players.

Answer 5

Maybe you came on too strong.  The text may have scared him off if he was not on the same page.  Got to remember guys don't speak the same language as women.  

Answer 6

wake up and notice what you are doing on an unconscious level. you probably have a tendency  in ensnaring others with words thus fuzzing up the continuity which is why he suddenly changed his tune.  kill your pride, stop talking and start understanding.  above all, please get over yourself.

Answer 7

text him back and ask him whats up? if he ignors that then call him maybe his phone is broke

Answer 8

There was nothing wrong with your text to him and just shows your fun loving nature... if he is not a texting person then I would say he is just being himself.  But why not text again and tell him you just checking to see if he is ok, and see what happens.  He may be shy..

Good luck

Answer 9

I agree with Melissa.. text him again and ask him whats up. He may not be into texting a lot. I know I text my husband sometimes and he doesn't always text back. He could be really busy too. Good luck

Answer 10

I just think he isn't in to u cause I know when I say something like that to a guy who is into me they dont really think of the stupid stuffbas much or he is just. It a guy who likes to call or text

Answer 11

hi look he could be busy ,and ive knowen of worse txts in the form of being babyish as you put it .....stop stressing he will get in contact with you ....i get the feeling that you have done a bit of chasing after this guy ? well if so stop it will make him wonder what youre up to ,and he will txt you just to find out and remember there are plenty more guys out there that would love to get txts like that ......take care xx

Answer 12

He has lost interest in you.