Please please help! i beg of you!

Question

ok ok so i have this guy who is my bff and we both really like each other and he is the best person in the world and is so nice to me. now my dad says i cant date in till i am 18! i am a 13 year old girl and i know you are all probly going to say be a kid but i cant mean i look like i am 18 because i grew alot......lol yea so i am more grown up then my 15 year old sister.yea so back to the point my dad wont even let me explain just because he waited till he was 18 i doubt he waited i think just nobody came for him... and my mom got pregnant when she was 16. i mean i see from their mistakes and he wont because he just lik knows i will have a baby young but why? i mean my bff is lik the only guy who has ever liked me and we are 13! it is no dif if we went out then us being friends really since i go do stuff with him all the time. what is with my dad i cant have holidays or shirts with skulls or anyhing that has to do with this messed up system in his words. i am a well he is a jevoah witness and i cant tell him i dont wanna be one and that is another reason i cant date pleas please help! srry bout spelling i am in a hurry

Answer 1

18?

I'm sorry, thats just wrong.

you should be allowed to date at 16, but no younger than that.  

Answer 2

meet him in like an after school club, or aat a friends party, and sneak around at griup gatherings, not like a date at q resturant, but go to the mall or the park or to a movie with your freinds and he can show up...:]

Answer 3

Talk to your dad.And if he says no,pull a guilt trip on him.

Answer 4

Ok first it sounds like your dad is a little overprotective. I know its so hard being 13 and wanting to break free from your parents. I was that child 13 years ago. It sounds like you and your dad have had lots of arguments over  this and since he is your father he is biased to his opinion as your dad. Since I am a catholic I don't know anything about being aJehovahh witness. I know I was allowed to start dating at 16. I think that's the normal age. Are your parents still together? I think it might still be ealry for you to date but that doesnt mean you cant be boyfriend and girlfriend and just not say anything to your parents. Just remember to use common sense. If your having issues with your parents sit down and talk with them...calmly. They should listen to you and help with any issues  you have. Plus usually the more calm and relaxed you are and show you are seeking their help they should be more relaxed too and try and see your point and want to talk.

Oh and about the only boy who has ever liked you. There will be lots more boys. Even if you dont want to think about that right now. Everything happens for a reason in life and remember to be open minded. Your 13 and there WILL be LOTS more boys. Trust me! Even if you want to just date the guy your with now. I know there will be more boys in the future for you!  

Answer 5

Well maybe write a letter to your dad saying how you think you are mature enough to date and how you think you are more mature than he thinks..

I guarentee you this will work because he may act like he is not listening but he is.. All parents do that, they don't want to admit the fact that their little babies are growing up.. lol

good luck  

Answer 6

talk to him . most girls are aloud to date when they re 16 . they get there drivers license then (in the u.s.) . so after that he cant keep eyes on you all the time .  

Answer 7

Honestly hun, if you really want to date then you're gonna have to fight with your dad about it.  It will be extremely difficult but if you make a good enough argument then you might end up getting what you want.  I'm not here to tell you that you should wait till you're older to date, because I dated when I was 13 ( I snuck around BAD IDEA ) but really it IS better to wait, since relationships are more meaningful once you get into high school and college.  But if you want to date this boy then let him meet your dad and show him that you are responsible enough to date and that you won't make the same mistakes he did and stuff like that.  Hope it works out for you ^^

Answer 8

i had to wait until I was 18.

And let me tell you, it was SO worth it.

i didn't have to deal with stupid immature guys in high school, and I didn't have to deal with their ex girlfriends causing problems.

Just go along with your father, he is only trying to help you in the long run, you'll thank him later. All guys at that age want one thing, and even though you BOTH can deny it, everyone else who has a brain knows better. Live your teenage years riding horses, or doing each others hair and make up. Don't get caught up in boys just yet. When the time is right, and the boy is right, everything will fall perfectly into place, don't worry!

Answer 9

as long as he continues to push this jw insanity on you - there is no hope for you, your bf or your relationship with your father. sorry. good luck.