Please please help me. My fiance's sister hates me. Please help.?

Question

My fiance's sister and i used to be friends and now she is slagging me off to the family and saying to people that she hates me. this has been going on since january and i finally snapped a few weeks ago and told her what i think of her (in an email) but she still talks badly of me and now uses that against me. she even told my fiance that he has to make a descion and that i am just a girlfriend and she is his sister., this hurt so badly because im more than just a girlfriend, were getting married and are very serious about each other. i get on fine with his other sisters, its just her that has the problem. im starting to really hate her because of what she has done. please can someone give me some advice? i would really appreciate it.

Answer 1

You have to understand, your fiance's sister is just mad at you because she feels you are stealing her brother away from her. She probably doesn't do well with change either. Snapping at her probably didn't help out one bit, if she hadn't hated you before then she will definitely hate you guts now. Don't be surprised if your engagement is broken up because of this. I don't know what else to tell you. You are not in the best position right now but I don't think you need somebody else to tell you that. :)

Answer 2

One bit of advice, never ever use email for something like that because it can be used against you in the long run! I would just ignore her myself. If you guys have a good relationship, nothing she does or says will effect it, actually I would relay that to her.