Please please help!!! why would a guy cut off a frienship if friends is what he said he wanted to be?

Question

Why would a guy cut a friendship off, if friends is all he wants to be?

me and my guy friend were really close, he had a girlfriend but he would flirt with me alot and hint at wanting a relationship... for 4 months he consistantly pursued me and when we finally chilled one day, he kissed me, twice while he had a girlfriend and spent the night (no s*x cuz im not like that)..the next day,he completely ignored me (didnt answer phone or text, nothing) the day after that, he apologizes, tells me that he wants to be commited to his girl and that she means the world to him, and we can only be friends, i was so hurt, and i told him how i felt about the situation, but i agreed to continue the friendship..but he he never talks to me again after that..ignoring me..why would he do that?

i tried to reach out and find out what happened but he wont answer me AT ALL!! what should i do?

I know i messed up just like everyone does,i know i was wrong, and i apologized, but i dont deserve this treatment.

Answer 1

he's really..umm not good, u better move on.

Dont let he make you feel bad like this.

Dont waste your time trying to be friends.

he crossed the line of being friends and decided to go back to his side.

Answer 2

i think this guy's a douche. he just wanted to see if he could get with you and once he did, that was that. the fact that he would cheat on his girlfriend means he can never commit. yea, you did mess up but it's good that you realized what you did was wrong and apologized. and no, you dont deserve this treatment. he's the one that should be punished for what he did. you dont need to have this person in your life.

and if it still bugs you, you can always tell his girlfriend. after all, she should know what kind of a guy he is. she doesnt deserve to be cheated from a good relationship.

i mean, if he was a decent guy, he should have broken it off with his girlfriend first.

and this guy flirts with other people when hes in a relationship. he will never be a good boyfriend cuz apparently he doesnt know how to be. and he doesnt know how to treat a person either so dont waste your time with him.  

Answer 3

this poor guy is human and he is tempted by you ..but he also realizes continued contact would jeopardize his relationship with his girlfriend...Its easy to say " lets be friends " ..but this is hard to do when its between a guy and girl with some kind of chemistry together....He's trying to do right by his girlfriend ..and if you like him truly, you will help him by staying out of his life ..and start thinking about more available guys.