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my 11 year old daughter has accidents at night she has a bladder control problam what are some pull up brands i can buy for her that wont show and imbarrass her if a friend was to stay the night please help me she is 83 lbs if you need to know that i really need help with this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

You can also buy her some serenity pads which are like feminine pads only for incontinence.  They stick on her regular undewear and might feel bunchy but if she is wearing loose fitting pajams, it really won't show.

Also, if this is a regular bedwetting problem there are other long term solutions.  An alarm helped my daughter train herself to stay dry at night.  She was 7.     http://www.bedwettingstore.com/Bedwettin...

Answer 2

There is a new product out now that looks like pink boxer shorts.  They are called Good Nights.  This is the link to their website.  Hopefully that will help.

Answer 3

I would try Good Nights. Also, have her go to the bathroom before bed every night so she gets into the habit. If you can try not to give her anything to drink at least an hour before her bed time this would help too.

Answer 4

Good nites are the old standby, and I think there is a new brand out called UnderJams, specifically made not to draw notice to them.

My sister had the same problem, but around 12 yrs old, she no longer had to wear Good nites to bed.  

Answer 5

if you can't find anything in childrens sizes then try a small size in a womens incontenence pad from most supermarkets they are pretty discreet these days

Answer 6

under jams by the underwear pull-ups and stuff they are specifically made so your daughters friends don't notice so that she can have so much fun and not notice her problem.

Answer 7

IF she has a bladder control problem she needs to be seen by a doctor who will give her medication to eliminate the bed wetting.

Answer 8

You need to buy the Good Nites brand...made by Huggies.  I think Pampers also sells one now for bigger kids.  You should also speak with her doctor.  There are medications that can be used to help control this (Desmopressin, I believe).  At her age, it can be a highly embarrassing thing.  Good luck.

Answer 9

GoodNights fit kids up to 125 lbs.

UnderJams fit kids up to 85 lbs.

Both are easy enough to conceal under PJ bottoms.

Stores like CVS Pharmacy and Rite Aid make a store brand version of them that cost less, but are a little bulkier.

She should outgrow the bedwetting by 12 or so. Many kids have "immature" bladders, or are heavy sleepers, or both. They usually outgrow it without medication. You can talk to your doctor (if you're saying she has a bladder control problem you probably already have) to see what's best for her situation.

Answer 10

I know you asked for pads/pants that would fit, but have you thought about maybe in addtion to that, setting an alarm to wake her up in the middle of the night to go potty?

First nothing to drink 45min to 1 hour before bed. Go potty right before bed.

Then set an alarm, wake her up 2 hours after she goes to sleep and make her go potty. Then again in 2 hours and then as soon as she gets up in the morning.   Do this for about 2 weeks.

After 2 weeks, extend the time between wake ups to 3 hours and follow same pattern.

Do this until she's dry through the night.

You should also have her practice Kegels. I know people associate those only with adults but it really helped me to stop the "leak" after I gave birth. I don't see why it wouldn't help her. She may feel a little embarrassed talking about it at first but she's probably desperate to find a solution too. Let her know the bed wettings not going to stop on its own. She's going to have to do some work but that you'll be there to help her.

In the mean time, she may have to avoid sleepovers.

What does her Pediatrician say about this?

Answer 11

Good Nites are supposed to be very good and they fit like underwear. I'd also take her to the doctor to see if there are any pills she could take to help her problem.

Answer 12

She should use Good Night my son uses it

Answer 13

There are goodnites and there is another brand that I cannot think of the name of right now.  I tried nosing around on the internet to find the name, but it escapes me.  Both are made to be thinner and fit more like underwear.  Check in stores to find them.  Also, if she has a problem that is medically related, a doctor visit will surely help.  Good luck!

Answer 14

Good Nites I have seen them advertised on TV they are designed for older kids who have accidents and are made so other kids wont know they are wearing them.