Please please please help, this is getting me upset :/ :( ?

Question

Well, all last school year I sat next to this guy in maths, towards like March/April time, we got really close, like best friends, and we always flirted with eachother. Then the teacher noticed, and kept making comments, then the rest of the class noticed and kept making comments, eventually I kind of realised I really did like him, and then it got really awkward, coz he knew I liked him, but I didn't know how he felt. People kept saying stuff, and all his best friends told me he liked me, but he was just shy coz he's never had a girlfriend before. I was going to ask him out at the end of last term, but I chickened out so my friend did it, and he said no, but I've regretted not asking him myself all summer coz his friends said he would probably say yes to my face. Now we're back at school, our maths teacher has split us up coz we didn't get much work done, and we're starting our GCSE course this year, but when she said she was splitting us up, everyone in the class was like "awww miss you can't slpit those 2 up, theyre made for eachother" etc etc, and then, apparently, he went red (I don't know coz I was too embarrassed to look at him). But I don't know what to do now, coz whenever I see him he just sort of pretends Im not even there, but I still really like him :/ :/ :/ help me please? :(

Oh, and thanks to the three people who have already answered :).

I just feel I need some more opinions on this :/.

Answer 1

I know it's waaaay easier said than done, but just take him aside outside of class away from friends and tell him you didn't mean for things to get all weird between you guys cus you really liked bein friends and just wanted to tell him to his face.

It will make you sound really mature and confident and he should respect that and make him want to do the same in return (cus i'm sure he doesn't want to look like a lil ***** after you confront him)

Chances are he feels the same. You guys are just young and these are the situations that come with young loves who don't know how to show their feelings to eachother.

He prob acts like you're not there cuz he feels ackward and when you feel like that sometimes the best thing to do is nothing, like he's doing.

Trust me girl, I've been there and reading your ques brings back memories that i look back at now and laugh...you will too.

Just do it, you'll feel sooo good after and know that if he doesn't do his part, he's not worth it!

Answer 2

just go up to him and tell him how you feel