Please read? CRUSH problem?

Question

ahh! there is a guy that liked me. i liked him back. we never told each other (his best friend told me in secret that he liked me because he assumed i didn't like the guy back.) now this guy i had a crush on is basically in love with another girl. he calls her all the time and tells her he loves her and asks her out...basically he does NOT like me anymore. we have talkec maybe three-four times on facebook im for an hour or two, so we're kind of friends. he went to another school, but now he's coming back to mine! i'm so upset because i was getting over him=[[ should i just avoid him at all costs? how can i get over him?

and he's coming back to my school to be closer to her. she doesn't like him any more than a friend.

Answer 1

TOO LONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GET WITH HIM!!!! Does that solve your problem woman????? If not find someone else and stop sooking!!!!!!

Answer 2

he sounds like an idiot, don't even bother. who changes schools because of a girl. if i were that girl id be pretty freaked out. he's a total follower not a leader...find a unique original guy, who doesnt do something just because of a girl-epescially one that doesnt feel the same way about him! Besides, he sounds like a total stalker...and the fact that he's telling this chick he loves her and they're not even together!! thats f*cked, and totally creepy!!!!

Answer 3

Well maybe you should be friends with him first [[like hang out and stuff]].

If he still dosen't like you then he's not worth your time.

You'll get over him sooner or later.

To take your mind off him do fun things with your friends! (=

Answer 4

Don't avoid him. Just be friends. To get over him, don't think about him that way. If you still like him just remember your only friends.  

Answer 5

i know exactally how you feel oh my gosh! it seems like everytime your almost over him he comes back and does something! its crazy. what i did was delete his number his screen name profile on facebook any pictures that made me think of him. its hard and it will take a while. but stay strong. i know its hard. e-mail me if you need more help.

Answer 6

Get over him and look at him as a friend and NOTHING more.

Answer 7

He's moved on and so should you.

Answer 8

i bet when you see him in real life again you won't be impressed..

you had a lot of time to build this guy up in your head in the time you spent apart.. you probably made him out to be something much better than what he truly is..

i bet you will see him and realize how silly you were and it'll be a lot less dramatic than you envision..  

Answer 9

Tell him how you feel. If you want to get over him then that's the first step. You may even tell him and find out he still likes you. But you should tell him how you feel about him and see what happens. If you want anymore help you can e-mail me at [e-mail] I hope this helps.

Answer 10

If you want to get over him than avoid him.

If your looking to get in his pants again than go after him ;)

Answer 11

Tell his friend that you like him and that it's a pitty you didn't know he liked you before he was with that other girl because you'd have him in a heart beat. Chances are he'll tell his friend that you have a crush on and he'll stear towards you... that or the other thing will happen. His friend will fall in love with you and you guys find out you're perfect for each other lol.

Answer 12

i am in the exact same situation.

Just act like youre not impressed with anyone, have fun with life. its yours. only need yourself. people that move back home are overated, its like ok so you move no one wanted him so hes moving back?!

just act like youre repulsed be cause you probably are in some ways ! and now that hes available again theres no sense in getting carried away.  

if you were getting over him, thats a very very positive sign that you stopped missing him when he was gone.

think for you. you can email me if you want to msn and vent about this idiot.