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Question

i have my wedding coming up in a few weeks , and i have this really bitchy cousin who makes sure that my mood gets screwd . she says things like y r u wasting money on dressed . clothes jewellery etc ,,,, y do u need make up ,,, y r u dfoing this and doing tht . she is ruining all my moments .....

on my wedding day too she is gona pass some rude comments and spoil my mood and s***w it up for me ,,,,

how should i deal with her without getting into a fight with her ?....

please reply ,,thanks !

Answer 1

this is your day the one you will always remember she should not be there, i know shes family if she has to be there put tape on her mouth or tell her how you feel.  

Answer 2

Have a pleasant sit down with her.  Explain your expectations for your wedding day.  Outline the significance of positive attitude toward the happy occasion and relative events.  If she has questions, ask her to politely excuse herself.  You will both earn the respect of the other.

You will also get a sense of being hugged by yourself.  Self Love is a key factor in happiness.  Embrace Self.

Answer 3

Well, if you knew this already, why invite her in the first place? I mean, you could have just had a smaller wedding and invited the people you trust most not to ruin your day.

You should try to find some comeback to keep her quiet if she does mention something. Let your guests know about her and have them find something to say that will shut her up at least for that day.

Wasting money on dresses? That's kind of what people do in every wedding! Most brides have overly expensive dresses that cost 5 times more than the groom's tux! That's a fact. Does she know this? Let her know.

Tell her that she isn't the one paying for the dress, and that if she finds it so expensive, tell her to help you pay for it (she won't but she should either stop mentioning it then or find something else to complain about). Tell her that it was expensive but that's why you were saving money for and it was worth it to you and you don't care if it is to her "It's not your dress or your money, get over it!"

Answer 4

just dont listen to her its YOUR day who cares what she thinks.

its not her business

Answer 5

it's your wedding yor special day not hers i mean u got 364 other days to let her have ha way and talk let this one be your she don't run nothing of yourz

Answer 6

do u HAVE to invite her?lol...tht could fo solved ur problem if she wasent invited but i suppose u cant uninvite...maybe just say hi to her n if she says ANYTHING turn around and say 'this is my day so shut up' then walk off! ur look the better person and feel great :-)

have a fab wedding day!

xx