Please read me and help?

Question

First off, I'm not fishing for attention or being an emo here.

I don't know why... I just feel so troubled in life... I have Panic Disorder for 12-years already (I'm currently 19), I have never ever had a girlfriend before and I'm still a virgin. Whenever I'm sincere in wooing a lady, she rejected me very badly. My relatives looked-down on me because my family is poor and also because all the schools I've went has bad reputations (gangster school and such).

I'm a chinese but I do not know how to speak Mandarin (or chinese), which makes people look down on me further more. And because I looked like an American-Chinese, they always used horrible insults on me, calling me a foreigner or a disgrace to the Chinese Community.

My dream is always to be a Successful Entrepreneur and Investor like Warren Buffet. I've been praised by my teachers and few of my close friends. I have also been sincerely complimented as above average looking. But still, no ladies have any attraction to me, and all the other problems.

Please help me? I really need some motivation or someone to believe in me that I will succeed.

Thank you for reading this.

Answer 1

There is nothing wrong with still being a virgin. Lose it when you think the time is right. I am only 16 but I am in no hurry to lose my virginity. Don't care what others think of you even if it's family. Your close friends and teachers think you're doing well and that's all that matters. If they think your doing well you will succeed. The best thing to do though is to believe in yourself. I'm not sure about getting female attraction lol but someday the right one will come I'm sure.  

Answer 2

first off you have to love yourself, and

have confidence in yourself... One thing i have learned in life is never to spend too much time focusing on how others feel about me. in this world there will be people who like you, and those who don't including your own family. also you are young don't rush to lose your virginity so quickly save it for the right person when you get married, stay in school

you will be somebody positive one day.

Answer 3

Hey your 19!!! You shouldn't be worrying about loosing your viginity!

As for your family, they don't sound like a very caring one...

You work hard towards your dreams, heck, start now by looking for problems and a gap in the market and solve them! That's what the most successful people do.

Answer 4

First you need to check local colleges and get yourself enrolled in winter Business courses. If you want to be a successful businessman, you need to educate yourself on how to run a business and the American economic system. You seem like a very intelligent, articulate person, I'm sure you will able to get some scholarships and/or grants to pay for school.

People can tell when a person has a low self esteem, and you are probably are a very sensitive person. There are some pretty cruel people in this world. What you need to do is hold your head up high, look people in the eyes, stand up straight, and speak with purpose.

You are special, there is no one in this world just like you. God put you on this earth for a reason.

Answer 5

Hi Seng

Have faith in yourself.

If you keep on trying and working hard you will succeed.

I had little Education opportunities when I was young. So, I studied when I became an adult. I realised you can do whatever you want.

I created a tourism business, it was great. fantastic income. Then my hubby had cancer. I gave it all up to look after him for 12 months bafore he died. We make our own choices in life.

Love will find you. It has found me 3 times in my life. I wasn't looking at all. It just crept up on me, or I'm a bit slow.

Don't worry, you are young. It will all happen for you.

Answer 6

All of these things will be forgotten in the future as they are all external.  You will find that people can be cold hearted, but that doesn't mean that you have to be.  What really matters is who you are on the inside.  Everyone talks badly of other people who show some differences from them, but that doesn't mean that you have to listen.  Be proud of who you are.  A girlfriend at your age would only be a distraction from your goals.  You need to get your education out of the way and get started in a career first, then you can start worrying about attracting a mate, but then you'll have so much more to offer.