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my name is Cameron, but ppl call me Cami.

it goes like this..

my sister asked me to go on vacation to puerto rico with her..

but last year i put a cell phone in my name for her, and she got fired, ran the bill up to $538.32.

i have been asking her for the money, she told me she'd give it to me. but she said after she gave it to me to stay away from her.

she talks about moving and going on vacations but when i ask for my money she says she doesn't have it, or she'll give it to me when she feels like it.

so i sent her a message on myspace cause i don't have her number, and she said she would give my money if she felt like it but she said it wasn't on her list of priorities.

she got mad at me because i asked for my money back.. wtf? she always does sh*t like this.

so last year.. i met this guy. and i really liked him. i found out that he talked to my sister's best friend. then i found out that my sister gave him oral while he talked to her best friend. and i asked my sister if she minded if i talked to him. she said no because she had a boyfriend. so behind my back she calls him and she is like, 'i love you and i don't give a f*ck about cami.'

so he tells me. i ask her, she says that i am wrong for talking to him even tho i asked her if it was cool and she said yeah.

so... we get into a big argument. and she says doesn't care. she is quick to say, 'don't talk to me anymore.'

she goes back and tells my mom, 'cami, talks to my boyfriend.'

she went back and told, my mom that my brother was talking to this girl on myspace. she always goes back and lies or doesn't tell what she did to cause the problem. she makes my brother and my sister and i look bad to the rest of the family.

my sister moves her son in with random guys that she doesn't know, she's known them for a total of maybe 3 or 4 months. and she gets mad at me because i tell her she shouldn't do that. her baby's dad was trying to get custody of her son and i didn't think she should be moving in with in random guys while she is in a custody battle.

so our younger sister, lily, over heard her on the phone saying, 'lily's boyfriend is hella s**y, i'd f*ck him if i had the chance.'

i need advice. should i try to mend things with my sister? or should i just let it go? what should i do? what would you do? she stabs me in the back repeatedly. i'm at a loss. help me.

Answer 1

Your sister is poison.

Remove her from your life - it will be well worth the lost $550. DOn't email her, don't call her, don't look at her MySpace. Just cut her out of your life like a big fat cancerous wart.

Answer 2

She has repeatedly shown her disregard for anyone but herself.  Distance yourself from her as much as is humanly possible.  Forget the money, chalk it up to paid experience and avoid her like the plague.  

Answer 3

Let it go. It sounds like she thinks she can walk all over you, what she's done breaks all the bonds of sisterhood. Just be polite to her, but keep your distance from now on- it sounds like she is just selfish and manipulative. I don't think her behavior is going to improve, there's just about nothing you can do; mending relationships requires work from both people, you can't do it alone. Let it go and move on!

Though it sucks about the cell phone money... :(

Answer 4

Learn from past experience.  You can not change your sister, only the way you react to her.  I think it would be best to put some distance between the two of you. I would not go on vacation with her.  Ask yourself " If she wasn't my sister, would I be friends with her?"