Please someone help me =[?

Question

i feel so stressed out and a complete failure =[ I've been self harming for ages now and i have been trying so hard to stop. i hadnt cut in like 2 weeks until thursday... im starting back to school on monday and im worried sick... i have my gcses coming up and im really nervous... i was given work to do over the summer and i havent been able to do loads of it.. its all so difficult. I'm too scared and embarressed to go 2 my teacher about it because i did really bad in my exam last year and everyone found out. i also dont think i can face her telling me off if she doesnt believe me... i just feel completely lost with my life and feel like there isnt a point to it... i have no one to talk to about how i feel and i cant beat my self harming... i keep finding myself thinking wat it would be like if i kill myself =[ someone help me

Answer 1

Please call a suicide hotline -- they can help you with this.  I was never a cutter so I really can't relate.  But I know people who have been, and this really helped them.  Please call them.  good luck hon.

Answer 2

everthing gets better school is not everything and u shouldnt stress over it dont kill urself please

Answer 3

Success at school is good but it aint everything. I left with average results and never went to university and by 30 I was on £32k a year by working my way up through retail which I only fell into as a career by accident. Self harming is oerhaos a way of release but there are others - some much worse - drugs, alcohol - so dont beat yourself up about your escape. You would be best to find a better way of coping though. You are worth it. You mention that you have no one to talk to. You could have a huge family and a circle of friends but still feel unable to talk to any of them about this. A stranger is often best. You don't have to face them unless YOU choose. What about talking things through with a doctor. Hard at first but they hear it every day from someone. Well worth the effort & you can bail out at any time with no embarrassment.  

Answer 4

Hey, first of all... everything is going to be ok, ok? Now, I'm not trying to sound like you're a person about to jump off a ledge, but I want to help. I wrote a 15 page essay on self mutilating, and I want to figure this out with you. It's really good that you want to stop, and just keep reminding yourself that you'd be healthier when you stopped hurting yourself. Just try your hardest in school, and work at it. And life may suck now, but you don't know where you can be in ten years. You may be some very sucessful person, looking back at the question and remember how you got past everything. Your life has purpose! ... now I'm just sounding cliche!

if you need anything else, just e-mail me! :)

Answer 5

Speak with a school counsellor about your inability to do your homework and perhaps need for support or a tutor who will help you with it.

Talk with your parents and doctor about the self-harming and see if you can stop doing that.

See what you are spending your time doing over the summer holidays which meant that you werent doing your homework and change that timetable to include homework so that you catch up during term.

See if there is a homework group being offered by your school or whether there are some kids there who will help you with your school work.

Answer 6

1st off self harming doesn't make you a failure. I know that's how it feels afterwards but it doesn't.

Tell your teachers that you've really tried but you don't understand, you'll just have to hope they believe and see that you need help.

killing yourself is not an option, tell yourself that when you next consider it.

I've been where you are.. and i probably will be again as i seem to have mood swings of depression, but you can pull yourself out of it.

good luck =] x