Please suggest best age for child?

Question

I am 30years old man. Still I am not ready for take responsibility for child.

Answer 1

Its more depend on woman's age

The "biologically optimal" time for childbearing is 20 to 35.

Beyond 35, the risks to the health of mother and baby including high blood pressure, diabetes and foetal abnormality rise.

As the average age of motherhood has risen, so has the rate of complications and abnormalities.

For men, such is not a criteria but again other factor needs to be taken care.

Remember, if you have first kid by 35, when you will be 60(retirement age in most countries) the kid will be only 25 and will need much of your support.

And this is only first kid, you probably want second also.

Comfortable age is 25-35 for man. As it allows you to be mature enough to take responsibility as well as allow cushion to support family properly before retirement.

Also, that's the time period when men are most fertile.

Later, you may need spent extra money to give birth to child.

As far as responsibility is concern, it's just a level of maturity.

Talk to people with kids, attend sessions and if possible spent time with small kids of neighborhood and you may find that you are ready for the responsibility.

Hope it helps.

Answer 2

for men I think 25 is enough you know why?

because when the child grows up he will feel so uncomfortable with his dad if he's a lot older than him.I think having a good and close relationship  is the best gift for a child so don't ruin it

Answer 3

You may never be ready.  Not everyone is the same.  There a lots of people out there that do not have children.  It is not a requirement to have them.  No one can suggest a good age for you, you have to do that. At least you're responsible enough to realize you are not ready for a child.

Answer 4

No one is ever really ready, don't worry! I will say however that you are still young (because you are a man) and you have the privilege to wait a bit.

I was 22 when I had my child and my husband was 38 and it worked out great! Thrust me, he was not ready either at 38 but as soon as he saw our son he fell in love and there was no going back!  

Answer 5

if you're not ready, then don't have a child.  there are too many children born into the world without parents that are able and willing to care for them.  there's nothing wrong with a man waiting till his fifties to have children, although you'll have a lot less energy to keep up with them.  on the other side of the coin, you could be retired before the kid gets through high school.

but then again, birth is the most incredible experience that a man can be a part of.  but a child is an awesome responsibility.  should you or shouldn't you? nobody can really answer that but you.