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Please take time to read men- women? i am asking in this section bc you guys have experience?

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ok there is this guy that has treated me bady but swears he want a chance to start over bc he is just scared to fall in love. yesterday he call me up and tells me he is in the hospital. he got robbed and beat badly. now we are not dating bc i told him to get himself together before we start trying things out. we are both in out thirties. i tell him i am sorry to hear that and ask if i can help. he says no but ask that i talk to him about us and working us out please somehow. well he calls me to talk when he is finished with xrays and returns to his house. while on the phone i ask what about us?-- what specifically do you want to talk about- he says-- i dont fu.. ckng feel good- my fuc. ing nose and eye are bleeding. i dont want to talk now. i proceed to say well i didnt call you to talk about us it is you that called and wanted to talk about working things out. i then hang up bc he is being rude. i go to his house to bring him food and make sure he is okay. when i get there he has several friends there and he is laughing and attempting to box with a friend. now my question is should i ditch him? my reason is this - he called me to talk about working things out , i never called him. he called back and when i asked what about us- i get fuc.. as every other word. i dont think i deserved to be talk to like that. why did he call to talk about us, then says he cant bc he doesnt feel well, but yet he can bullshit with friends and even attempt to box.?? what should i do? i think he is immature and rude ?

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  1. Move on.


  2. The answer to this problem is very simple ,,,, You've only got to make a decision then act on it ,,,, If you want this jerk to continue playing head games with you then keep talking to him when he calls ,,,, This guy is a jerk of the first magnitude ,,,,If you are tired of being treated like this by him then simply refuse to talk to him or have anything further to do with him ,,,,I see absolutely no future for you with this guy what so ever ,,,, You don't need this kind of c**p and drama in your life ,,,,Drop him like you would a hot rock and stay completely away from him ,,,,  //


  3. ditch him he's a douche sorry but true... ur not to old to find true love

  4. dont ditch him unless you know you dont deserve better . hello he is 30 some ?  

  5. I can't believe you will go bring him food and check him out after having that nasty phone call. It is totally unacceptable to have a man talk to a woman like that. He is rude and insincere, don't waste time on this kind of people.

  6. You answered your own question, hun.

  7. Both of you are immature.  You are thirty freaking years old....why does someone need to tell you what to do.  LEAVE HIM ALONE!!  He is a moron.........and is obviously stringing you along for the ride.

  8. He is a waste of time. I don't think he got robbed I think some guy beat him up for being him.

  9. Who cares what he called to talk about. Block his number so he can't call again. He sounds like a total looser! I mean, he's in his 30s and still going around getting in fist fights and acting like a spoiled brat? h**l no its not a good idea to keep this guy around! Listen, real men don't get in fist fights, they don't treat women badly, and they don't curse at their g/fs or wives. Real men live quiet lives, go to work, provide for their family, are kind and generous. They don't have to have some stupid drama playing out in their lives constantly. Never talk to him again and go find one of the good men.

  10. move on

  11. He's an idiot. Obvious why he is still single. He has no idea how to treat women. Just blow him off. You shouldn't have to "train" your bf how to be nice to you. He should be nice already. If he doesn't have his shite together by now you will not help him.  

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