Please tell me how to feel blessed and happy everyday altough I always alone everyday.....

Question

Everyday i live in my room without caring of family/friends/boyfriends.I feel lonely and I wish someone would care to me so i will not feel lonely anymore.Ihave a boyfriend,he is the only hope of caress..but he is not a romantic boyfriend and he never try to make me not sad/not lonely anymore.Help me..because of my sadness,i becoming a drug addict.

Answer 1

It sounds like to me you have had something happen that has caused you to be withdrawn. The not caring is a self protection, I called them "walls". If you don't let people past your 'wall' then they can't hurt you. Sometimes  family/friends get caught up in the fast paced life society brings that they don't see the forest for the trees. Doesn't mean they don't love/care about you, it's how life is. Life has taught me that "Happiness is a choice" I am a senior with major health issues and yet I'm a caregiver part time. My clients appreciate what I do for them so much that I feel worthwhile. I know my family loves me they just have busy lives. Try volunteering a shelter or senior center. Do you have a neighbor that's hard for them to take care of their yard? help them out. If you start giving freely of yourself the rewards will be far more then you ever dreamed. God Bless and good luck.

Answer 2

music !!! it became my substitute for alcohol. if your feeling lonly, go for metal music ! i suggest i wish i had an angel by nightwish . really good when im angry,. and skip those emo music, go for the 1980's music, like guns and roses !!! november by guns and roses is really good too,

Answer 3

Let's look at all the fun I had to deal with in my life--got tossed out of law school, got rejected by several women I worship, one woman I loved was verbally abusive and I had to give her the heave-ho, my mom is deceased, I have a rare and possiblily fatal lunger disorder that Bernie Mack just died from, my first boss after getting a doctorate treated me like I was an idiot and so it goes.

My point is that life gives us stuff to handle and we do. Beneath it all life is  good and it is your job not mine or anyone else's to make you life work.If I can do it  you can too.

Answer 4

Try prayer God does care about yo and love you very much and read the  bible There you will find yor answers.

Jesus died so you could be forgiven of you sins.

John 3:16 Bible

Answer 5

Seek a higher power.  None of us are truly ever alone.  Find that source of light and hope deep within your soul and cling to that--it will always be there and will never falter.  Learn to rely upon yourself, to love yourself and to not ask others to fill that void.  You can not truly experience love until you first love yourself.  And finally seek treatment.  Drug addiction and depression are both treatable curable disorders.