Please tell me how to get my daughter to stop!!!!!!!

Question

My 4 year old daughter has kicked my oldest in the chest , neck, and almost in the face today. She has smacked my oldest and my youngest in the face and almost slapped a baby at the daycare. She has kicked a hole in my wall and will not listen. Today I noticed bite marks from like the day before on my son's (not yet 2) forarms. She bite him . I don't know what to do and nothing i try works...... I NEED ADVICE!!!!!!

Answer 1

Try a time out first.Every thing she does that is bad put her in the corner.I'm sorry but these times call for something more than just a "talking to". Don't sit her on a chair because then she gets to rest while being punished...stand her in the corner and make her stand there for a little while.She is WAY out of line and needs to be shown that what she is doing will NOT be accepted! If that does not work then its right to the spank on the butt. Maybe if she gets a spanking on the butt then she will kinda realize that it hurts and maybe tie the two together. It hurts when she gets spanked just like it hurts when she does these things to her siblings. Spanking is not abuse I don't care what anyone says. As long as you don't take it over the limit(excessive spanking at one time) or do it out of anger then it is a great punishment for those little ones who are just a bit too wild for their own good. Also while in time out or when she gets spanked you need to tell her that what she does is NOT funny and is NOT cute and will NOT be tolerated,and that she is really hurting her siblings and that isn't right. Also you can try telling her "How would you feel if your brother or sister kicked and hit you? Or how would you feel if your brother bit you a bunch of times on the arms?" maybe she will think that if it were to happen to her then she would not like it at all and maybe she will stop this behavior. If anything you can always call her pediatrician and ask for a referal to someone who can try to sort through and cure her anger issues.

Take action asap because if this continues you might end up having to take one of your children to the hospital due to your 4 yr old or may end up getting a summons to court for a parent suing you due to injuries your 4 yr old has caused their child in daycare or school.

Bets of Luck

Answer 2

You need to correct her and show her your the parent.

Answer 3

A good play therapist will be able to see how she interacts with her inner world, and will give you good tips on how to interact with your daughter in a way that will create a change in the current dynamics.

Answer 4

Spanking.

Answer 5

u might be going a little easy on her since she is only 4 but u need to teach her right from wrong give her timeouts and smack her hands every time she does something shes not supposed to

Answer 6

pediatrician NOW.

Answer 7

You might wanna discuss with your doctor about testing for ADHD(Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder).  Some kids may act this way for a variety of reasons.  Make sure you rule out any mental disorders or behaviors.  She may need medication and/or counseling.  I'm not saying that she has it, but it's not normal for a child to act out this way if you have tried everything in the book to discipline your child. You can go check the symptoms online from the sources below.  Good luck with it, and keep us updated!

Answer 8

make the kid sit on the steps and say dont do it again! its that simple how else would you handle it????!!!!

Answer 9

Honestly i would say it is time to talk to a councler.  She needs to be evaluated by a professional to find out if it is just a behavioral problem you can fix yourself or if it is something more serious.  I thought my son was just being a Brat but come to find out he was diagnosed with PDD which causes mood disorders.  I wouldn't just sit around and let her get worse i would take her to see someone and find out for sure what is going on.  Most likely she has a chemical imbalance in the brain causing her to act like that, she has no impulse control.  Write down everything you notice her doing, even the smallest things and take it with you so they get a better idea of what is going on.  

Answer 10

This may be silly but i watch super nanny and spanking a child lets them know its ok to hit others...Well i would say give then a naughty chair or step and still with it don't break down and when you see her doing any of those things put her there and let her know she is wrong and that is not the right thing to do....That shows her she is wrong and you are the parent and she needs to respect you and know your in charge...