Please tell me what to do, urgently.....?

Question

I love a girl very much and she loves me that much as well, but our marriage is not possible due to some family reasons. and her family is forcing her to marry somewhere else and my parents have completly denied for this marriage they said that if i want to marry that girl i have to leave the home coz they dont want that girl in this home. so i want to know the best possible solution for this . shd we leave this matter on time and fate or should we go for marriage without parents blessings??????????????????

Answer 1

YOU are the one who has to live with YOUR life.  Why should someone else decide how it goes?  It sounds like you are an adult- at some point you will have to start to be a man and make your own decisions.  One of the most important ones is who YOUR WIFE will be.  Try to imagine what the rest of your life will be like with this girl.  Then try to imagine what it will be like without her.  Make YOUR OWN decision.  You are the one who has to LIVE WITH IT.

Answer 2

Marry her without your parents blessings.  

Answer 3

I have a feeling that this might be a cultural issue here!  If so I think you both need to think about it allot more.  I am all for mixed race couples and mixed culture couples.  If your younger I believe you should wait it out a year or two and see where you stand.  Because if you truly love someone you will love them 10 years from now!  Allot can change! Hey maybe even your parents would change their minds:)  

Good luck!

Answer 4

I think the LOVE is the most important thing in this situation.Try to talk with your girlfriend about the problem.Take one paper and write all the good things if you get married without your parents blessing in one side and  bad things on other side.the number od reasons will be the answer.GOOD LUCK -- and I really think you should win the love together  

Answer 5

Let her go, your parents know best.

Answer 6

i wish u would have stated ur age and hers.. if she is  an adult she cant be force to be married.. and i am sure u know that and she knows that.. same with u.. if ur an adult u should be able to marry her with out a problem but i think u have to first  have a stable  job and  proove that u can provide for both.. i dont know the reasons why ur parents object to this marriage but do think about it carefully before u act in impulse..what ever u decide to do  will have a great impact between families.. good luck

Answer 7

if you are old enough to marry this woman and support your own family, then do it. Your family isn't going to be sleeping with her.  

Answer 8

if you really love her you need to go get her.  

Answer 9

marriage if yah really LOVE each other

go for it nuthing can stop ya

but if ya are having diff. thoughtsd about it then jux leave it

Answer 10

Your families should love their daughter/son more than they hate the bride/groom. If you really love this girl, have known her long enough, and want to be with her forever than I say wait a bit longer, move in together, see how things go, and if you still want to be with her, then yes. Marry her. If your family does not support you, then they are not doing their job. Parents are supposed to encourage their children to better themselves, and a good wife should make you a better person. Good luck and congratulations on finding real love.

Answer 11

umm stuff the parents if ur in love then thats all there is to it,

Answer 12

So what will you loose if they do not give their blessing?  Do you want to live  your life with out the one you love because your family disaproves?  If you allow that to happen you deserve what you get.  If you love her and she loves you then you should try to build a life for each other together.  What do your parents have to do with that.  IF you are too young I would suggest the girl continue to refuse to marry anyone but you and when you can you two get married on your own.  The choice really is yours and hers, which means more to you?  What can you live with forever?

Answer 13

go for marriage without parents blessings. you love her and she loves you, so why not? your family will have to learn to accept it.  

Answer 14

First off, if you're under 25, wait. Don't get married. A lot can happen in a little time. You should still carry on a relationship if you can, even if it's just long distance. But marriage is not something to rush into. Make sure you really know yourself before you claim to love someone else.