Please tell me what you think of the following?

Question

Right this is a long story so i will try to make it short. When i was very little on my first day of pre school i met a friend. We was both the youngest in the class and we became best friends. Until the day he discovered i was a girl. We was still good friends all the way up until we was 12. so that's nine years of friendship. He decided he liked me in the non friend way when we was eleven. We went to different schools and we lost touch. I found him on my space and tried to talk to him, but his profile was no longer active. i contacted one of his friends who turned out to be his sister who made him a my space so we could talk. he replied to one message then ignored the rest of my messages. I didn't understand as when i saw him we chatted and he seemed genuinely pleased to see me. so i gave him my phone number, never heard from him again. I got really upset and sent him another my space message saying i had just wanted to be friends and i didn't understand why he was ignoring me. and still no reply... Please can you tell me what you think? oh i discovered he has a girlfriend they have been together five months but he never mentioned it.

Answer 1

Okay, interesting. Did you ever consider that he didn't tell you that he didn't have a steady girlfriend because he didn't tell her about you either? Maybe he's ignoring you (cause after so many times that's what it comes down to) because he feels guilty that he's talking to you behind her back. Or it could be that he doesn't want his gf to find out about you (regardless of who you are) because he thinks that she'll get jealous and angry. OR it could be that he secretly still likes you and just doesn't want to s***w things up in his life (girlfriend, loss of friend a second time) by talking to you. Or he could just be one of those people who forgets things often. It's one of those. Sorry that i wasn't more help than that.

Oh, that makes sense. In that case, the girlfriend knows and she's already jealous. That would explain the reason that he's ignoring you too. Even so, if his girlfriend's that jealous, you'd figure it's because she has good reason to be. Maybe she thinks that he does still have feelings for you. The extra details really clear things up on that one. My advice (which I know that you're really not asking for in this question) is to just try to be friends on myspace, but don't take his silence too personally. If he doesn't want to get back in touch after all this time, that's probably just him.

Either way, good luck.