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Question

ok well i wanna know how long does it take u guys to get over a relationship dat u just broke up in like a month ago because i like this guy and he says we gotta take it slow even though we been out and everything but we hardly even talk about us like at all because we get to shy we text like everday to each other and talk mostly on the phone everyday too but when we talk on the phone we talk but not as much i liked to because even though i feel like asking him something i get too shy so we stay really quiet on the phone but i wanna now wat do u guys think i should talk to him about hes not a guy that loves to talk about girls the whole time if we talk or something its mostly about my life or something about him so please give advise

Answer 1

Your in the wrong forum for this. Sounds like you are pretty young, so don't tread on your relationships too seriously. However, don't take things for granted, if you actually like somone you should have some sort of emotional attachment for them. Just be sure to not get so emotionally invested in someone that you put their needs before your own well-being. Keep in mind that I'm not saying it's bad to put somone's wants and needs before you...I'm saying it's bad to put someone emotions before your own EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL WELL BEING! I know this can be hard when you are younger are you think that there is only one fish in the sea, however keep in mind that there are plenty of people out there.

Anyway to get to your original question, "how long does it take u guys to get over a relationship dat u just broke up in like a month ago"....that all depends on how long the original relationship lasted...emotions get more heavily invested as time goes on. The question you asked is pretty much one for debate. It all just depends

Answer 2

I think it is a good sign that he is interested in your life, and even thou he is shy it seems that he does care about you.

If you are willing to take it slow, I would say you should consider giving this guy a chance.

Just be cautious that you are not the rebound girl, sometimes guys hang out with a girl after they break up, just so they can either take their mind off of their old relationship, or so they can use you as a sounding board.

Good luck hon