Pleassee help, ? bout s*x, i think?

Question

So my boyfriend and i have been away from each other for 2 months now. And while we're both intent on staying virgins till marrige, we like to well, tlk dirty 2 each other. just fun stuff like what would we do if we were with each other right then and there, especially since hes so far away. Im 16 by the way and i was just wondering if this is normal? i mean, the whole thing.. the fact that he and i get turned on and stuff. like he makes me blush when he says stuff like are you wet and whatever. I dnt know if this is normal or if its okay for us to be talking about things like this, Please help

Answer 1

lol...ah sweetie, its perfectly normal. and so long as you're both being responsible young adults and not actually having s*x before you're ready, then its all good. there's nothing wrong with dirty talking or flirting, especially since you're a couple. enjoy it, its perfectly fine, but should remain private because though its not s*x its close enough, and you wouldn't want your parents getting the wrong idea...ya know? have fun, and keep up your imaginations, I'm sure it'll do you good so when you are ready you may be more prepared and knowledgeable than you'd think.

Answer 2

its totally normal. ur 16! ur just curious. but if u really wnat to save yourself till marriage, dont tempt yourself. you dont want to have any regrets

Answer 3

yes. i'm pretty sure that's normal.

Answer 4

good for you! I 'm planning on staying a virgin too.

Talking dirty is not a crime, but if you feel like it's really tempting you, you might want to stop.

It's perfectly normal, and it's definitely okay, for you to be saying that stuff. Think about it, some people your age have been having s*x. If your getting turned on without actually doing it, your fine!

:)

Best of luck!

Answer 5

Having talks like these with your boyfriend is just normal as long as you both know the limits. These days, it's hard for boyfriend-girlfriend relationship to have control over themselves. It's nice to think that you intend to keep chaste until you get married. Keep up the good work, girl!

Answer 6

I think that it is normal to get turned on by talking dirty....and very mature for the both of you to agree to wait.  Kudos for you!!!!  If it makes the both of you happy, I don't see any harm.

Answer 7

Its normal! And it is a great decision to wait until marriage, just be careful not to tempt yourself too much if that is what you really want.

Answer 8

No but dirt is dirt and if you keep giving into abnormal thinking you will be jaded and this is not good at any age

Answer 9

It is normal, but be careful. You are 16 so you have at least a few years before you can get married. If you are at the talking dirty stage what is next and how long before the hot talking gets carried away and you want to try the things you have talked about over the phone?

Be careful.