Pls help i cant seem to have a o****m wiv ma husband been married 5 yrs neva had one wiv him ?

Question

any ideas of wat i can do i will take any and i mean any

Answer 1

Is there anything I can do to help?  I know how to hit the spot.

Answer 2

These two articles help woman o****m with their partners:

How to Locate the G Spot During s*x- From Behind

http://www.ehow.com/how_4448654_locate-g...

How to Locate the G Spot During s*x- Missionary Position

http://www.ehow.com/how_4451153_locate-g...

Hope they answer your questions!

Answer 3

If what you mean is having an o****m during intercourse, most women cannot. Use manual stimulation or have him give you oral.

Answer 4

do you have an o****m when you maturbate?if you do and are not shy do it in front of your husband so he can see what turns you on and take it from there,good luck.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

I know this may sound tmi, but when I want to have an o****m and my hubby is just not doing right that time, I use my hand and stimulate myself "down there" and it ALWAYS does the trick. Especially when he is doing it really hard and then you do that... WOW, it's really great!

Answer 7

Do you know what it takes to give yourself the "Big O"? If so, you show him what he has to do to get you there. If not, do a little experimentation until you do. Take charge of your own sensuality, and don't be a passive observer. Learn what gets you there, and then show him too. That way it can be something special that you can share.

Answer 8

Hi im not being funny but you have to try for your o****m as well and not just expect to get one just by your hubby penetrating you etc, its not your husbands fault you have to try to. You have to learn what works for you etc like most wof your answers on here I cannot believe you havent figured that out for 5 years.  

Answer 9

Tell him you have a problem getting off, it has nothing to do with him but he still turns you on. Try getting your self off with a d***o and let him help or gets some bullets use them while you have s*x! Me and my wife do it all the time, try something different!  Take care hope things work for you and your husband.

Answer 10

its crazy, i haven't had one in such a long time. until my recent boyfriend came along. every time we have s*x i have multiple orgasms. the trick with him is, that i make him be dominating to me, i submit to him, let him talk dirty to me, things in that nature. and he's blessed in that department so he keeps me happy. good luck.

Answer 11

get back with that guy off the chat room, u keep telling everyone ur in love with him!

Answer 12

If you mean during intercourse then this is quite common, unless you o****m during intercourse with other partners. If you never have then try being on top of him relaxed but in control and stimulate your clitoris at the same time and bring yourself to o****m with him still inside you, keep doing this for a while then hopefully you will get used to the sensations and you will o****m without stimulating yourself

If not get yourself a d***o if you don't already have one, and stimulate your clitoris until you feel like you are going to o****m then penetrate yourself with the d***o and stimulate yourself with only that, more than likely the need to o****m will go, so stimulate yourself again until you feel the urge or o****m then enter yourself with the d***o, repeat until you o****m vaginally or your fed up and feel its never going to work.  

Answer 13

Firstly, can you have an o****m alone?? I assume yes?

If you can have an o****m on your own then you can have one with him, just re-think the positions and what you like when your with him.

Its much easier for a woman to o****m when she is on top and she controls what is happening to her and how much stimulation she gets to the clitoris.

Take control and be selfish in bed until you get what you want, your partner will approve.

Answer 14

Fantasise, whatever turns you on, just don't tell him, you may hurt his feelings.

Answer 15

Visit adamandeve.com for some naughty ideas! They have everything...you may need to explore yourself 1st to see what you like. Just  tellin' the truth

Answer 16

Well if you are indeed in love with another guy this could be why!! If its not that you first have to understand that an o****m is achieve when he is in tune with your body, your soul and your emotional. You need to lend yourself to something new, maybe some role playing, different positions, more heavy patting.  

Answer 17

Try using a d***o or getting him to go down on you during intercourse this will give him time to calm down and then you can start it all up again also try different positions this can also help. it may also be you have someone else in your mind try to massage each-other to get yourself in the mood with candles romantic music strawberries you know what i mean right  

Answer 18

This is your responsibility, not his. Women need to understand how their own body works and then explain it if he's not pushing the right buttons. We're all built differently. If you can't do it alone, that should be your first goal. If you can do it alone and you've waited 5 years to bring this up then do it tonight. Good luck :)

Answer 19

what is wiv?

Answer 20

Maybe if you learn to spell...

Answer 21

Hmmm...the problem is that the entrance he is using for s*x is next door from where youre sensitive spot is!!!...the answer is to get him to l**k it?...but!...you might have to tell him where it is?...some of us men get to 60 years old and past it before we discover this problem!...so be told while you can still cure the problem!...if my statement opens any more questions?....it may be helpful to realise that all life in the womb starts off being female!...and then depending on the number of certain chromawotsits?... added... a male baby is made...this tends to leave some cross over bits on both sexes when they are born...ie nipples on men and a very small p***s(clitoris)on a female...and it has the same sensitivity as a male p***s...So all you lads out there!...just imagine s******g youre wife with youre finger?...wouldnt do a lot for you either would it?