Plus size need help find'n some one this school year?

Question

well I'm going to the 10th grade this year and i want a boyfriend so i could fit in but the onlii problem is tht i am a plus size gurl not like super big were i need medical attention but like a size 22 wear'r and m question is like y am i have'n problems wit tlk'n to boii's or watevr.and im like a very pretty',caring ,nice and outgoing person so anii one please tell me wat is rong

Answer 1

go for a jog  

Answer 2

there's nothing wrong with you.

A lot of guys are very shallow.

Give it time soon someone will realize how amazing you are, and they will want to be with you.

hope this helps!

Answer 3

Some guys are really shallow. It's pretty sad but thats how some guys are, they only like a woman/girl for her looks, and they never go for plus size girls. Other guys, such as myself find all women attractive, including plus size girls ;)

But any who don't get a boyfriend, just to fit in as someone else said, because that won't do anything for you, plus it won't be natural to only have the boyfriend to be more popular/fit in.

You should be yourself, don't let any take advantage of you, be confident, come up with your own style, be popular in your own way, attract the guys by being classy and unique, don't be like all the popular girls.

Answer 4

Boys in high school are shallow, plain simple. They rather have a girl that looks gorgeous on the outside, trashy on the outside, and brain dead, than to have an honest, humble human being that would treat them much better in life.

Answer 5

hey, i'm 13 but ppl call me a college gal....it doesnt matter....a bf shud like u ....not ur looks

Answer 6

guys care about looks  

Answer 7

alot of guys are shallow and only care about looks

Answer 8

HI,

Don't worry .. For your Good Heart you will definitely find some one

cheers

Answer 9

Lots of guys will judge you because of the way you look and, unfortunately, that won't change until they get older and grow up. But don't get a boyfriend just to 'fit in'. Don't worry if you're single, just wait until there's a boy who makes you feel better than you ever have before and go for him. If you go for any guy that comes along, you'll be settling for less than you deserve!

Apart from that I'd say you just need a bit more confidence! Maybe try something like an acting class, or just set yourself little tasks like talking to someone new every day, until you feel comfortable enough to talk to guys. Guys LOVE confidence!

Just be yourself, and the right guy will love you for that!