Plz help me and save my life?

Question

hi

i am 19 year old first year b tech student of one of the best university of india.

its really sounds good, but it is not same with me. i was never very serious about my career. with time i became more confused. so as i got joinin letter form this university. so, i joined it without second thought.now i m feeling that i have made a mistake.

it is not what i wanted to do. apart from it, any other option is not in my mind. yeah, i played quite much and i believe i m good in it. but from last one year i have been resting as par doctor's advice due to leg injury. in between i have gained lots of weight.

i desperately need your help. please

Answer 1

Ok I have made so many mistakes in my life most of them really really big, which changed my life forever mostly for the worse. Here is what you should ask yourself. Do you feel really physically ill when you wake up and have to go. (if yes quit and stop now) Are you at least moderately good at what it is you hate.(stay and finish) Is what you hate a possible pathway to get out of a bad situation. (stay and finish) Do you have another skill which you are very good at and love, if it's something you love would doing it everyday make it boring and make you lose your love? Sometimes you just need to get over a rough spot, life is never easy. There is something good to be said for finishing what you started. The grass is not always greener on the other side, it's just more grass..

Answer 2

What's the question?

Answer 3

are u mad go back to doctor and ask him about your mental status

Answer 4

Your problem, simply put is lack of perspective.

   Your weight gain is trivial, and is the result of less excercise because of the leg surgery. That is a temporary thing that you shouldn't worry about.

    Your real problem is that you don't have a goal or objective in your life. People tend to do better for themselves when they identify and pursue goals. Aimless "drifting" is depressing and robs people of their self-esteem.

    To get things started I suggest you start with baby steps and identify a goal that you can easily attain. Whatever that goal is, make sure that you reach it.... It'll give you confidence to tackle bigger, harder goals.

    

Answer 5

It happens to all of us...we are never serious at that time when we should be,and later on we get confused.Same thing happened with me also buddy....dont lose hope..you know, just try to overcome this thing (as i did) and concentate on your studies and please dont sound too "desperately depressed". you are at such a young age and therefore be optimistic and be happy....ok?i think now your life is "saved"..;-}

Answer 6

manage a girlfriend it's best for u  

Answer 7

get back in shape, redo ur eng in the same univ.

Answer 8

What kind of help you want?You are in the best University and a good career in B.Tech, why are you cribbing for just a leg injury?You can go for weight loss later on, there are several crash courses or diet course available, but first is the healing.

Answer 9

I think you have posted the wrong question in the wrong place. Anyways i think you need a lot of physical exercise. Start by doing yoga and then concentrate on your studies. I think you hardly have another year for your placements. So better concentrate on getting placed for starters. Then you can work out your physique. Never regret for the course you have taken, try to make the best out of it.  

Answer 10

youngsters are quite confused as to which field  to take up in their careers, so dont feel you have made a great mistake.

as you have realised you are not intrested in this line it is better to opt out of it NOW. dont go on studing  for a few years and then decide to drop out as you will be wasting precious years and if you continue with it you wont be able to perform to your full potentiol as you wont be enjoying it.

go to a good educational counsellor and try to find out your area of prefrence and then pursue it. today you can get good job opputunities in all fields .

as for sports if you TRULY believe you ARE god at it then first get into shape and get your talent evalued by someone from that particular line who is really good at it.

after taking in all the pros and cons decide what you want to do with your life.

Answer 11

just do it again.works well

Answer 12

Hey man........just relax.What you lack in is self-confidence.You are almost headig towards a great future so no need to worry.Gaining weight is not a big problem as such.you can always lose it.Just try and remain happy.