Plz help me this is a serious problem?

Question

iam a guy of 18 yrs from India i try hard to be serious in life but i could not do so, i am always a fun loving guy who is always smilling and iam not serious in life at all but i know tht i should be serious in life to achieve something but i could not do it plz tell me tht how can i become serious about my self and leave the current attitude of life tht i have right now

Answer 1

ohhh ..well u r just 18...so enjoy its ur time and u will do good as u r worried abt ur future :)

take ur time n' b happy

Answer 2

U are only 18 yrs, your attitude -OK.

You started thinking about seriousness is really good attitude, very soon (automatically) you will turn into much better attitude,

Smiling is not harm , always smile give someone happiness,

Achieveing your goals is most important, concentrate more on your goals and do better with best results.

ACHIEVING--THINK MORE AND DO AS PER YOUR TARGETS, YOU WILL FIND SERIOUSNESS WHILE ACHIEVEING UR GOALS.

Answer 3

drink more beer

Answer 4

you are kinda asking a lot of yourself at the age you are now,you are expected to have fun,that is what 18 year olds do.there is nothing wrong with enjoying life,you got plenty of time to become serious.

Answer 5

well take some respondible and think about them and you don;t have to be serious to achieve something you can be funny and do it your way and it ,mean that your different then any one else ok yaar

Answer 6

Do volunteer work for people who are less fortunate than you.  Sometimes you need to see suffering in order to come out of the clouds a bit and realize that life is not always fun... and that there is much work for all of us to do for those around us to make their lives better if we can.

It's great that you have such a positive and fun attitude, but if you desire to take a more serious outlook, look into the face of a child who is hungry... or a mother who cannot shelter her children... or a man who has no job to support his family.  Read to an elderly woman who has no sight and who has never seen the faces of her grandchildren.  Help to build a home for a family who has lived on the street.  Bring a bowl of soup to a child who hasn't eaten for two days time.  Help to care for a young man your own age who has lost the ability to use his legs in an unfortunate accident.

There are shelters, orphanages, social service agencies, food kitchens etc all over that help the disadvantaged.  Perhaps a look at the other side of life... the lives of those for whom life is not joyful... and nothing but serious and trying to survive... perhaps that might help you to gain a new perspective and appreciation for life in general.  When your life is so full and blessed... bring that blessing to those who need it most.  You'll be blessed twice for the effort.

Answer 7

you just have to find balance. you need to balance work and play. im the same way but ive learned to be both.

Answer 8

You're 18!!

You're young. LIVE A LITTLE! You're only young once.

Do you have a family to support?

If you don't, then why are you worried?

Let things take their course, you'll see yourself changing in a few years time. But you cannot force these things, otherwise you'll regret not enjoying yourself when you had the opportunity.

It's nature...you can't rush it.

CHILL!

Answer 9

dude this question does not belong here but you seriously do mean you are not serious about anything.. this problem is also just randomly put up like its thrown upon people to answer and help you out... Are you serious you want to change you attitude towards life and be serious.. this sounds difficult but this is the only way you can change..

Take up a job... Earn pocket money and look up high with the pride of being self reliant at this age... this shall make you learn the truth of life.. the difficulty of life..i.e earning money.. understand the pressure of earning a single rupee the salary you are offered will be very discouraging but stand there in the crowd and see true life.. maybe thats when you will realise the tensions, problems of life....

P.S- Manage the entire month with that money and make sure you gift your parents something...

see the real side of life and not the shetered side.. the shelter provided that we use and abuse.. not realising its worth..

Answer 10

I cant help you because Im not an 18yr old guy from India

Answer 11

You sound like you have a anger problem! So do I. You just need to kick back and relax and think things through before you do them. And have faith in yourself! ; )

Answer 12

There is nothing wrong with being carefree and smiling. That is a nice quality in a person.

If you are harming others or annoying people, then that is the time you need to re think it.

Answer 13

Hi Rishab!

I didnt understand why you finds it annoying being Happy and in Joy. I think that is what all these serious people should gain..

You are really blessed Rishab..  

a heart to smile is not really simple a thing to posess. and please never try to be someone else than what you are..

didnt you feel like you are going to act in a Drama or what



Be the real person you are..and be proud that you are unique.

and you are just very younger to start acting.!!

Now it is the Time to enjoy the nature.. it is time you need to observe.. learn from what you come across..

and there will be a time where you will be much smart with a good bold attitude... even without a big drama you could be bold enogh (  i belive you mean Bold by saying serious) you can not act like bold, it is a character that should be developed from your daily experiences. that will take time my dear. so No worries now and get going with your smart questions..

anyway Intresting question !! you are really different from others.. have you seen anyone asking a question like this. so you have already started moulding your character!

Answer 14

Your 18 yrs old it's still ok not to take life serious. I'm 21 and still don't know what i'm doing. Take your time the day will come and you'll be ready to face it with a stong head on your shoulders.

Answer 15

you are only 18 you don't need to be so serious now.  Enjoy life and have a little fun.  As you mature with age, it will come naturally.

Answer 16

I say your young and even if you werent its ok to be a smiling not serious person of course you should be serious in serious situations but other than that keep being yourself a happy person thats good to be that way dont change because if you do your only being fake and not true to yourself and you wont be happy so just be happy and love life .