Plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

I'm in love w/ my ex crush yet I love my bf. Idk what 2 do. I can't stop thinking about my ex crush and dream about him all the time. I just feel so bad cuz I can't control how i feel and it's unfair to my bf who loves me so much that he's moving from Idaho 2 Cali just 2 be w/ me. But then my ex crush will txt me (we've been good friends) and say things like "ya, I know u pretty well but not as much as I'd like, to be honest". Can someone translate that for me?? What do I do?????????????

I'm 18 btw...

Answer 1

Go with ur ex bf its obvious that you love him more then your current bf

Answer 2

As they say, you cannot have the best of both worlds being a two-timer. What if you learn that anyone of them is two-timing you - would you still care? You must decide now who between them or else you'll be more confused later.

Answer 3

thats a pretty tough decision. bottom line is u just gotta decide which one do u want more.

Answer 4

If possible, take a vaccation with your bf ........

Answer 5

just go to your x. it looks like you need a change

Answer 6

ok..from the additional comment that you just posted...I can already tell  that ..you do not really love your bf...otherwise you would welcome him into your world...but he loves you...but you don't love him.

you love your ex...but your ex...does not love you....he only would want s*x from you once in a while..on and off...so...be sincere with your bf...and tell him "sorry"..but you can not go through ..for you do not love him...and tell him all about your ex....hopefully he 'll understand and be on his way....for if I was on his place..after you telling me all...I would not want to be with you anymore..and I would just leave back to my state.

Answer 7

You have to think back firstly to why you and your ex split.  You might only remember the good things in this relationship and not remember the bad.  Secondly ask your ex what he means with the sms, tell him what you want in life, if you don't have the same idea, well then you are wasting your life on some fantasy.

As for your boyfriend... seems like you are only feeling guilt and that is why you are letting the relationship carry on.  In the end you will hurt him and yourself more.  Life is short ... try to be true to your real feelings, the happy ones, don't let guilt be the feeling that is steering your life!

Answer 8

Keep it REAL, save yourself and the current boyfriend some time and energy, You are not ready yet. Respect yourself, respect him and respect will follow. P.S. we are living in 2008, it is ok to ask ex crush to elaborate, what is talking about and where is this going because you are not getting any younger! LOL (18 year old baby)  

Answer 9

Well, I reckon you should go out with the person that is closest to you.

whoever that makes you feel comfortable and happy, that is the right person.

Hope this helps :)

Answer 10

i just gave you advice!  leave the bf.  or leave your crush alone.  stop cornering yourself and figure out which is what you want more.  put other people's feelings aside.  think about yourself.  its not mean. its your life.