Plz help! really appreciate it, trouble with best friend! last time no1 posted an answer!!?

Question

ok lately me and my best friend kinda stop talking but heres what happen, during summer she had a class with my bf (of 1yr 6months) and i gess she started to talk to him more, and talk to me less, and i felt like c**p cuz during that time me and my bf were having some problems, and when me and my bf would fight instead of her you know telling my bf to come talk to me, or being there for me she was with him... and i told my bf one time, and he said that she always comes to him, when somethin is bothering her, and he told her to come to me since im her bestfriend, but she never did, wen me and her didnt talk i always had to talk first, and always tell her i would b there for her, so yesturday she said that i cared more abt keeping my man more than my friendship, and this is what im going to tel her: if i didnt care abt you y would i always b the 1 to talk first, remember even tho we shared a dorm u wouldnt say one word to me, i felt like ****, and then i would c u tok to my bf, a bestfriend is there for her bestfriend, theres a limit when you wana b friends with my bf, when me n him fought i would expect u to b der for me n take my side like a best friend is suppose to, not run off and take his side in everythin, i told u i felt left out and u didnt change a bit it seemed you didnt care abt our friendship cuz u cared more about being cool wit my bf and i think that isnt right, you know when i would cry i would expect u to b by my side instead laughin wit my bf, my bf already apologized to me admitin he actin like a jerk and he wish he didnt act like one, but i told u many times we were having trouble and i thot u would tell my bf to tok to me, and if u needed sum1 u cud *** tok to me i never gave u a reason not to tok to me, wen i needed u, u were no where to b found! ,... should i tell her this idk im i right or wrong for thinkin like this

Answer 1

In a nutshell yeah thats probably what you need to say. Just basically letting her know, as a friend not someone feeling defensive, that you care about both of them but you feel hurt about what's happened. Don't come across as angry or anything like that, just have a heart to heart with her and let her know how you feel. Maybe there's something that was going on that made her feel like they could connect and get to know eachother aside from the usual "my friends bf or gf's friend" thing ya know? It was an opportunity to just know eachother and that's not necessarily a bad thing. Just talk it out calmly with them.  

Answer 2

Your are right and you souled tell her that then just forget about her, I Had a friend like that once but I finally decided to stop being friends because I has so dame tired of her being such a *****.

I know it's hard to let go of your best friend but I was able to do it so I have faith that you can do it to.

Best you luck

Answer 3

No one posted an answer to your last question because (and I'm just taking a wiiiiild shot in the dark here) you ramble on and it is difficult to read your question.

You need to break up your paragraph, use correct punctuation, and for the love of god, don't use IM lingo through out the whole question, Like "IDK".