Plz tell me what you would do in this situation??

Question

my kids father don't pays child support, he does not call and check on them, he does not even come by and see them, well in order 4 them 2 have a relationship with them I would take them over his house(lives w/mother at 40) anyway he called me a couple of wks ago and cussed me out bc I told his sister he was not working and not paying child support, so I stop taking the kids over their, is that wrong of me? should I just let it go and think about the kiddos, even tho they stopped going 2 his house he still has not called and checked up on them( they are 3 and 5) so why should I care anymore?? thanks in advance!

Answer 1

Its not your place to make sure hes sees his kids if he cant even pick up the phone to call and check on them. Id be making sure he paid his child support. Take his *** back to court.

Answer 2

I would check with an attorney to see what exactly are your rights and his rights.  I'm not sure that you can "punish" him for not making payments unless you make some sort of legal documentation..  Otherwise the burden will be yours to prove.    Once you have the document that confirms that he's not paying.  I would then check to see if you can legally keep your children from seeing him.

Answer 3

If he doesn't care enough to support his kids, take him back to court, get a court order and put his butt in jail.

Answer 4

Tell the cops that he isn't paying child support.

Answer 5

It isn't your responsibility to make sure he sees them, you can't force visits or contact.  If he wants to see them he needs to contact you and find a way to visit them.  It was nice of you to take them over there but you don't have to.  If the kids ask about him and realy want to see him then let them call him and tell him that and see what he says.

Answer 6

You should just stop trying with him he is not gonna give you anything. Dont keep the kids from him leave the door open for him to come see his kids that way you dont look like the bad person in the long run. You just worry about showing thoes kids all the love they need from mom and when they get older they will know who took care of them. If dad wants to be an A$$ then just let it go he knows they are there so let him make the first move and if he dose not it dont matter you left that open for him to see his children. Good luck and take good care of those babies stay strong it will be ok.