I have moved to a new place near new york that is just magical. i have a nice hubby. He is supportive but of course loves his parents too. He is very understanding about the fact that I dont like her but there are some things he has to do like invite his parents once every 2/3 yrs to America etc, go visit them etc.I actually see them roughly once every year for about a month.She has a problem with my SIL too.
We are from Asia and my MIL and FIL visited us once earlier when we did not have anything and lived in an average place in the suburbs in a different state. My MIL used to say I get bored, no ppl to look at, no parks no nothing, one needs to drive for anything. They are from Asia, cant speak much English and not many Asians were around. Now my SIL is preggers and I am trying to conceive. If I do then there are good chances she will come next summer. I am driving myself crazy thinking about how much she will enjoy here. We have a small aprtment but its so luxurious. Lots of asians around, lots of places to enjoy, basically a total city life with a huge park next block. We also have Asian channels on TV now. I feel she will love it too much and will tell my hubby she does not feel like going back which will make him guilty. Also even if she goes back, honestly, I hate her so much that her enjoyment at my house makes me cringe. I know I am being too frank now. Please help my mind stop thinking all and please tell me what I can do to make her enjoy less. When she visits its usually for a month and we cannot reduce that time. A month at my place and a month and BIL's place. I cannot put her in hotel too. She WILL stay with me. Please suggest and give advice revolving around these facts.
I am ruining my present bcoz of this. Maybe I have a disorder. Please help.
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