Poll: g*y Men: Were you married before you discovered...?

Question

your true feelings or sexual preference? If so, how long were you married before you finally accepted your true inclination? Please be serious and candid. Thank you for your time and consideration.

Answer 1

Yes.  Eleven years.  Really had little to do with divorce, more to do with not knowing what I wanted after divorce.  

Answer 2

No.  And it's not a sexual preference, it's a sexual orientation.

Answer 3

Nope.  Thankfully I realized I was g*y in my early 20s.

Answer 4

No - I realized I was g*y when I was 14 and came out at 16.