Poll Teenage Girl and Guys: Is being a Virgin Overrated?

Question

I had this conversation with couple friends and they said it was not that they will be until Marriage and one of them told one of her friends said the whole sweet Innocent act being a virgin is overrated

Simple my answer- then you can call me overrated because I'm going to be one i waiting for Marriage

What do you think

Answer 1

yes

Answer 2

much more intelligent then being another teen mother!

Answer 3

i think thats great that ur gonna wait that way u have no pregnacy problems that could occur and honestly u have something to really look forward 2.  

Answer 4

i dont think it is.

and who said you had to act innocent to be a virgin?

Answer 5

Not at all! actually it is underrated, you shouldn't live 4 their opinions anyway (or mine 4 that matter) but god's he's watchin, and will take it n2 consideration watever u should choose 2 do, don't believe that peer pressure c**p!

Answer 6

i dont think its overrated! im like that, not tell marrage but much older....

Answer 7

i t depends on where you live 95% percent of the us have premarital s*x.

so only 5% of the us wait until marriage to have s*x

so no it no over rate. the plan to wait may be because some girl say their will but they don't know what a virgin really is ( no intercourse(v****a s*x)) but it can also mean to sexual activity oral , anal or v****a just depend on the person.

personal i can't wait because I'm 18 and i have the hormones of a teenage boy. I'm trying to last as long as i can. i have a bf who is 18 also and we have been together for 8 months now. plan to use protection when i do and male sure I'm 100% ready

Answer 8

staying a virgin is NOT overated!

Saving yourself till marriage is one of the best things you can give to your husband!

Its your desicion, dont let anyone change it

Answer 9

I don't think it is at all. I don't believe in god, but I am going to wait for marriage because I want to make sure I'm old enough to handle s*x. It also seems as though couples that wait stay together for their lives.  

Answer 10

no.

Having s*x before marriage is overrated.

I'd rather wait, and not have to worry about being a teen mother or contracting an STD.

Answer 11

It's not overrated, but many people view it as that. I don't plan on waiting for marriage, but I do plan to protect myself and be in love (real love, not 6th grade 'I like you, you like me' love).

Answer 12

Not overrated at all. You should be proud of your choice. Whoever doesn't like it i say tough for them.

Answer 13

Everyone has there own opinion on teenage s*x.

Here is mine..

I know i won't wait until my wedding night unless my fiance believes in it, if he does, i will respect his wishes. But if i'm planning on marrying him, i shouldn't have to wait. And if i don't get married 'till i'm 30, i'm not waiting.

Basically, i'm waiting 'till i fall in love, and when i'm in a relationship for a good while.

However, i am still a teenager and my hormones are raging and i do want to have s*x and oddly, i do want to have a baby. But i know i shouldn't so i shall wait.

Answer 14

kids think they are so cool to have s*x, and when they do it, they regret it and cry and make themselves guilty. wait until your married or ready. at least out of highschool. wait for college at least. tell your friends friend to stop being so closed minded and to lose the attitude

Answer 15

DOOOOOOOO wait for marriage indeed! I was 20 when I lost mine to a guy I was engaged to, and the marriage never happened. He was, in the end, the wrong guy for me to lose it to!

I am SOOOOOO going to kick myself in the can ( bumper) if and when I meet a special one and get married to because it means he won't have my virginity, and if I get a husband, I'm sure he would be FAR more worthy of my virginity than anyone I "done the act" with. It really weighs me down not being a virgin. Considering I'm still not married at 32.

See, you cannot know how you feel about giving up your virginity until AFTER it happens, and heck forbid you come across someone you feel is more worthy of it than someone you lose it to.

So, you're doing the smart thing! s*x outside of marriage can be SOOOO dramatic in the end, and I am speaking from personal experience!

Answer 16

I'm gonna wait until I'm married or atleast engaged for several months.  Sorry I don't want to join the majority of the teenage population and get an STD or pregnant.

Answer 17

no.after reading wat that 32 y/o old said i think i'm gonna wait til my wedding night.if i can make it outta high school(which is my short term goal)with these annoying raging hormones.gosh i hate it.if i make it thru high school im gonna wait til 20 and if i made it to then im juss gonaa wait til marriage.anyways,virgins do everything non-virgins do except s*x.it doesn't mean ur sweet and innocent.i'm cranky and not that sweet but im a virgin.tell ur friend 2 kiss ur ***.