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Poll: has anyone ever told you you don't 'look' g*y?

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Poll: has anyone ever told you you don't 'look' g*y?

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  1. Yes, many times. In fact, I have a (straight) female stalker who has sent me 7000 text messages in my cellular phone, she follows me around in the parking lot, the gym, the office, she tells me to impregnate her so we can have a 'family'...so I guess I have the look that says "good enough for a heterosexual marriage", haha!


  2. yeah. pretty much everone i come out to says i dont..but im bi...so it may be different

  3. yeah lol

  4. no they usually say they think i'm g*y, i'm not all that g*y. I've known people who you wouldn't think are g*y though. Some of the body builder guys don't fit the stereotype.  

  5. Yeah, they used to. I used to be the straightest g*y person most of my friends knew. Then I really started hanging out with g*y people, so I started acting more like them.... then I cut my hair...

    still nobody guesses that I'm g*y though.

  6. no but I'm not

    have you told your mom you were g*y yet

  7. Sort of. I'm very feminine compared to other lesbians, so people always act so surprised when I tell them I'm g*y.

  8. No, but I have been told by a couple people that I am too "straight" acting to like guys. I say if I am acting then there is no problem with me liking guys.

  9. yes!  and they say "you don't sound g*y, either!"

    and i have been working on it, too...

  10. Yes. Countless times. I also get told I don't sound or seem g*y either.

  11. Yeah...I hear it all the time.

  12. yep yep yep

    and i have to actually REALLY say it twice everytime i tell someone i'm L*****n... and i don't get it really.. because i personally think i do look L*****n.. short hair.. boyish.. and i don't hide it at all.. but oh well it might be about how my surroundings don't know much about homosexuality ..  

  13. Yeah, apparently I'm pretty "straight-acting" or "straight-looking" and what not.  

    Actually I think I got that more before I cut my hair short and dyed it red ha ha.

    My g*y friend just says I'm a "lipstick L*****n" so whatever

  14. No, I think that it is just a given since I am straight

  15. Yes. All the time... That's why I'm single. I guess I have to dress all butchy so people will know.

  16. lol, never, I've yet to figure out why

  17. Nope. terrible question. why would anyone say that? looking "not g*y" is implied unless you are g*y.

  18. Yea when I come out to people there completly shocked and say really I never would've guessed you dress feminine and act straight.

    Has anyone every told you that?

  19. Yes. To which I ask them what do g*y people look like.

    L

  20. Does surprising everyone who don't yet know about me every time I end up telling them that I'm a L*****n count?

  21. People who don't know me very well do say that.

    However, people that I have known for a while (who I came out to after knowing them for a bit) tell me that they "figured it out." I find that interesting.  

  22. Most of them, yea

  23. Yeah. Apparently I'm supposed to have it stamped across my forehead.

  24. No, but I am not g*y so..... lol

  25. Yes, because I'm femme and "look straight."

    Stereotypes are frustrating.

  26. I do get that ALL the time. People think I am very feminine so I must not be a L*****n. lol

  27. yea ans some times I don't know how to take it. I look fem but I don't wear skirts or dresses often, but I wonder why every one thinks you have to fit into a stereotypical look to be g*y or some thing.

    I normally reply back what does  that mean or what does a g*y person look like.? lol its funny hearing them get confused and fumbling over their answers lol

  28. It totally shocks people when they find out I am a L*****n. As if there's a "look for gayness", lol


  29. Yea cuz they dont

    know the real me

    no one knows the

    real me...

  30. no, some people told me that i looked g*y instead, but I m straight. i guess it's because of my italian shoes!:)

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