before or after I tell him he's special to me?
I want to ask him if he ever treated me like everyone else since we first met 4 years ago. because I swore he was dropping hints that he liked me. Anyway two years ago I told him that I'm tired of all these mixed signals and to please treat me like everyone else or admit you have feelings for me. I said that in an email and I want to ask him if it's because I told him that or it's because that's how he always treated me. We email and talk a heck of a lot more than we used to.
I also want to ask him just to clarify one of his boundaries if he was serious when he told me he didn't like kisses. is that ok? I told him two years ago I didn't mean to kiss him(which was a lie I kiss my guy friends on the cheek as a friend.) And after I cheek kissed him he blushed beet red, had a huge smile on his face and his blue eyes were now black(He's not on drugs, it wasn't dark and he wasn't drunk). Anyway a week later we hugged before he left for something and I turned to look at him and all I could see was his lips it was so close to mine that I could have easily touched it. I froze there and he just lingered there for several seconds before jerking his head and moaning like a two year old.
So is it ok to ask him if he really meant it when he said "I don't like kisses" and that has he always treated me like everyone else since the beginning or since I asked him to.
Why or why not? It's really hard to creep/freak him out. He's 28 and I'm 23.
I also want to add that when I kiss my other guy friends on the cheek they don't respond at all. So why would you turn red smile so big your face could break and your eyes turn black if you don't like kisses? And why did he linger so close to me for several seconds and then say I don't like kisses when I told him that night that I didn't mean to because I felt bad.
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