Popular Girls???????????

Question

So, im fairly popular, but two girls are really popular, when i talk to them one-on-one on IM they talk to me , but when they are together they dont talk to me period? Why???? They are nice one-on-one but when they hang out with eachother they dont even care or notice me?????????WHY

Answer 1

like OMG like totally gag me with a spoon WHATEVERRRR

ugh, dramaaaa

Answer 2

maybe 'cause to them your a nerd who they can only talk to when no one is watching but you should you care if ppl are not nice enough to talk to you in publec then you shouldnt give a **** about them just be happy for the ppl who do talk to you and you said your fairly popular then you probably have other friends so you shouldnt care about just 2 girls they're just stupid ! =)

Answer 3

ummm..

Answer 4

they think youre probably prettier than them? prolly talkin behind your back

Answer 5

i used to be the one who would want to kiss *** to popular people.

and then i became "popular"but honestly its just cooler to be ur self i became more popular after that.

and it might just be because they are best friends with each other and dont want to make a triangle friendship because they are cofortable enough already?? do u get what im saying??

sorry im already confusing myself.

Answer 6

then don't talk to them!one day they will use u!get a real friend that won't use you.

Answer 7

they arent really your friends!

Answer 8

I agree with EatYouVeggies. Ummmm...

Answer 9

it just shows how insecure these girls are. on their own, they are too scared to ignore you, but it takes the other person for them to be brave enough not to talk to you and give them the arrogancy to think they are better than others. it simply shows their weaknesses. i wouldnt worry about it when they dont talk to you when they are together - just enjoy their company when you are one-on-one. hopefully they will one day realise that they dont need to be 2-faced and enjoy your company no matter who they are with. they may also be threatened by your popularity, and when they are together try to 'defend' themselves and their status. but dont worry about it!  

Answer 10

yr kind scarey for careing so much.

but there just not yr "friends" get over it,

Answer 11

its cuz theyre insecure and theyre afraid that if they talk to you while the other friend is there theyll be rejected  

Answer 12

The two of them may care more about the two of them than the three of you.  Or they might be worried that the other one might be jealous of you.

Answer 13

maybe one of them is only peteding to like u

Answer 14

well maybe its just they think they have to hold up an image and they have their guard up when they r together. if they want to act wishy washy dnt bother with them period they dnt deserve ur friendship  

Answer 15

its quite normal but really stupid thats what popular girls do. you could ask them but they probably won't listen and might take the mick, you could try asking them why they do this on IM.  

Answer 16

ask them about it! actually, become really close with both of them, and then ask them to go to ur house for a sleepover and then they HAVE to talk to u!

Answer 17

maybe they don't want each other to know that they are talking to you  

Answer 18

its called there snobs and there ashammed to talk to you in public!

Answer 19

I have the same thing happening with me.

They talk to you because then they know that nobody else can find out that they were talking to you.  In public they don't talk to you because people will know that they are talking to you.

Maggie

Answer 20

Here's the deal: you are not as popular as you think you are. This happened to me after I switched high schools. The girls would be really nice and chatty to me one-on-one, but when they were all together and they were around me, they didn't act like real friends at all. In fact they would only write me NOTES and hand me notes in front of people, but when other people were around they would not actually have conversations with me. Girls do this because 1.) they think they will look bad for talking to you, because you are not as cool as they are, 2.) there are rumors going around about you, or 3.) a combination of 1 and 2. These girls are b*#c%e$ and you are stupid if you continue to talk to them. I am really sorry that you have to deal with these girls.