Possessive and controlling friend.........?

Question

Over the past month, my friend has become controlling and extremely posessive....we have a large group of friends (especially her personally as she's 'popular' and the such) but she won't even let me do pilates with another friend because I'm not 'skinny' or 'petite'!!! I know it isn't her decision but she's going to extreme measures to attempt to control everything I do....I went to Yogalaties once and she said I need to lose weight to do it first and I lost 10lbs last year and I have to say I'm in good shape now......she tries to control my social life to. I've tried talking to her calmy and assertively but she just seems to shrug it off. Is something else going on that I don't know about? How to get this issue sorted without resorting to ending our friendship?

Answer 1

A few ppl just change their attitude coz of their selfishness...

I think the same has happened to her. why dont you just leave her and try to make frnship with someone else?

Answer 2

If she is that possessive and controlling she will never listen to you.

Do you like her? Do you like hanging out with her? If you don't then just let go and find some other friends. If she tries to control you then she is not worth hanging out with. Just tell her that you feel like she is trying to control your life. Do this when you're both alone. It's not nice to do it in front of a crowd or bring your best friend because she can be a witness if your possessive friend tries to spread rumors behind your back.