Possibility we will get back together?

Question

my first boyfriend and the love of my life decided we would be better off as friends.

the whole break up conversation was so strange,

since he kept trying to hold me and even kissed me at the end of it.

at one point he even said, "if i dont have you in my life, i dont know how i would be able to handle it".

in our relationship, he told me he loved me (through sobs).

reason behind the break up was because of my faith,

and that he thinks i should be with someone who shares my beliefs.

im asking for an honest opinion on this.

because hes been cheated on multiple times, is it possible that he is afraid to be with me because he loves me?

any other suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Answer 1

Yes, that is a possibility. He may have freaked himself out over his feelings for you, and used your faith as an easy-out before he got hurt again. It's difficult to trust again (even if it is indeed an honest person) when you have been repeatedly hurt by those you have cared about, and your man probably got a little scared. If he truly loves you (which it sounds like he does) and wants to be in each others lives, then he will make it work. If not now, then sometime in the future. I have found that if something is meant to happen, then it will occur when the time is right. Stay in contact with each other and figure out what you both want and what you two can do to make it possible. If nothing else, remain friends until you figure out the situation. Good luck!

Answer 2

He's probulary so inlove with you, that he thinks if he does anything wrong, he would hurt you really bad, and he doesn't want to see you get hurt. My best opnion is to talk to him. See how fars something really goes.

Answer 3

uhh j4 if u read the question it says he's been Cheated ON,

It seems like he's a little heartbroken if its not a HUGE religon difference like Aethiest Jewish or sumthing like that then it wont really bug the relation ship it's just you'll do things slightly different so i say invite him to a movie or for dinner and talk it out with him but if he really doesn't like you then drop him

I wish you best of luck

Answer 4

hes an a*****e if hes cheated.. let me gues.. you dont believe in s*x before marriage?? and he doesnt approve which is why he cheated.. he cares but he wants s*x too...and since u cant give him both he doesnt want to be with you. hes not worth it..TRUST