Possible pregnancy and married...but my ex...?

Question

It's just the last time I went thru this unsure, what if I am preg vs. what if I'm not, stage I was with my ex. Now I'm married and going thru that stage again and I keep thinking about my ex and how he handled the situation.

Is this normal?

Answer 1

It is understandable how you may draw your feelings and expectations from previous experiences.  However be careful to expect the same response with your new spouse.  No two personalities are the same.  Being open and honest generally is the best approach.  

Answer 2

Wow. You are a mess.  No, it's not normal.  First, buy some of those pee strip pregnancy testers to see if you are knocked up.  Then you should strongly consider counseling.  

Answer 3

of course it's normal......you are going to compare what you did or didn't do that you should of.......just think it's so much better this time because it's with your husband......i hope this helps

Answer 4

yes just go to the doctor et a test then if you are you should tell him

Answer 5

of course it's normal! just get a test to find out. talk to your husband about it. and good luck!

Answer 6

NO u are a freakin' weirdo and I PRAY u are not prego.  U can't even handle your relationships so how can you even contemplate (think deeply about) having a child!!!  GROW UP!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

yep....totally normal. but i think your husband will react in a very positive way! :D  if your preg: CONGRATS!!!!

Answer 8

I hope its normal I have been thinking the same thing, currently my fiance and I think that I am pregnant.

Good luck!

Answer 9

Sure is, your last reaction was probably a crappy experience. But you need to remember this, men are not all the same, there are some good ones. Also he married you for a reason and he should be happy to bring a little bit of both of you into this world. Congrats if you are preg tho!

Answer 10

The year is 2008 !   Wake up, there are a hundred ways to prevent a pregnancy, besides you are not mature enough to have a kid. What a ho !