Potential cheater or drunk idiot?

Question

My husband went out last nite with one of his friends and left me at home. I went to the mall and then decided to go to the bar since i never get too to have 1 drink and head home. Well one thing led to another and i was there til 2 partying with these guys who were really fun. One of them tried to kiss me and i almost did but pushed him away but was really tempted. I feel sooooo guilty about this today! Do these sort of things happen when your married or could this potientially mean since we have only been married a year, that one day it could lead to me cheating? I was just wondering if anyone could share a similar situation.

Answer 1

Alcohol releases the inhibitions you would normally have.  So you went out and had fun. Your husband went out and had fun without you.  I'm not saying either one of you did anything wrong, but it's really not a good idea to go your separate ways if it ends up in a bar.  But I think you already realize that. If you have a strong relationship with your husband, you will be less likely to cheat in the future, if that's what's worrying you.  

Answer 2

You got married and promised to resist temptation...which you did!  You're still alive and have eyes and ears and physical feelings.  What goes on in your mind is OK.

None of that predicts whether you will or won't cheat in the future.  Your future actions are up to you.

Answer 3

ur a terrrible terrible person just kidding things like that happen thats why u dont get drunk wit a whole bunch of guys cuz it will eventually lead to another thing

Answer 4

Don't feel guilty. You used your head and have nothing to be ashamed about.