Pre-teenagers dangerously low self esteem

Question

so im a pre-teen that never really fit in...i was fat with big puffy hair but then i lost 20lbs and straightened my hair and at the end of 5th grade i was exepted, everyone or almost everyone was my friend then of course middle school happened...but anyway my bff is 2 yrs older than me, a chearleader, most popular girl in her school and on top of that can get ANY guy from 9-30 she sneaks out and gets a ride with a 26 yr old to ANYWHERE!!! and i couldnt get a date to save my life...the more i spend time with her the lower my self esteem drops how can i raise my self esteem or lower hers because her high self esteem isnt helping either of us

Answer 1

Maybe you shouldn't spend so much time with her,

I know she's your best friend, but if she's making you feel like this...

Maybe just spend a weekend doing something with someone else, or just by yourself, hopefully it will make you feel better.

Hope this helps x.

Answer 2

Ignore your friend!

she's no good.

i think she's trying to make you jealous.

just don't hang out with her at all,or don't talk to her...if she tries to talk to you,walk away!!

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when i spend time alone it makes me feel like a loser?!

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no that's not true when you spend time by urself alone that doesnt mean ur a loser.......its good 4  u to spend time alone just by urself!

i like doing that............i call it [PEACE]

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you're better then her!

she;s trying to hurt your feelings...so dont talk 2 her at all.

be your self.