Pregnancy from fingering?

Question

I know this is an overasked question, but my girlfriend and I are still worrying about it and want an answer specific to our scenario.

My girlfriend and I got together yesterday. She gave me a handjob and we both got *** on our hands. It was on the sheets as well. I hastily wiped it up with some paper towels and then we both went upstairs. We rinsed our hands with no soap, and about three hours later (total guesstimation) I fingered her. She fingered her C**t as well. We're worried about a chance that she could get pregnant from that.

I've done research and I get mixed answers. Alot of sources say that sperm can live up to 7 hours outside the body. Other people say that sperm dies once it comes in contact with oxygen (albeit widely dismissed as truth). Others say that "dried sperm is dead sperm". Most people recommend to be more careful next time. ALL people say that there is a chance, but it is very little. (I've read other answers on this same question)

So I need a clearcut answer. Is there a chance, and how big is it? Because a little chance is a chance nonetheless. What precautions should we take next time? What did we do wrong and what did we do right? What should we do now, just to be sure she is not and will not be pregnant?

Another thing I'd like to point out is that there was a significant amount of s***n on the sheets. I can't be sure if it was dry and I can't be sure if I even touched that spot. But I fingered her three hours after the initial ejaculation. So the s***n on the sheets would have been there three hours. Would the sperm still be alive?

Answer 1

not pregnant

but if u have to ask this u prob shuldnt b having any sexual relations

Answer 2

you have to have seen if you had c*m on your fingers before you touched her ... its pretty obvious and hard to wash off ...

I have a friend who got pregnant from dry humping so yea your chick may be pregnant ... you have to wait to see if she misses her period ...

oh and next time just be more careful  

Answer 3

Ugh.

NO.

She couldn't have.

Answer 4

yeah idk but neither but i guess ya have to wait till her period comez or a pregnancy test  

Answer 5

The chances of you getting her pregnant are really slim, but you could tell her to take pregnancy tests and pills to prevent it. Usually, its dried sperm is dead sperm.

Answer 6

No. It is time you both go to Planned Parenthood to discover what your contraceptive options are. They provide free, confidential help for teens. Best wishes, G

Answer 7

There is always a chance.  Don't sweat it though, it is rare that this happens.  If she worries about this, it can delay her period due to stress.  Just take a pregnancy test (less than 5 or so bucks at Wal-Mart) a couple of days after her period (just in case she doesn't start).

Answer 8

My young friend, I dont think you need to worry because I am sure that after 3 hours any sperm that is out of your body is dead and dont pose any threat.

Answer 9

my guess would be that it isn't possible for her to be pregnant, but just wait until it is time for her period, and if she is late or if she doesn't have it, you should take a pregnancy test to be sure. That can't be an easy thing to deal with, but dude seriously, If she is pregnant, it is your responsibility too... you have to do your part too. just don't leave her because she is pregnant... and i hope that she isn't life is too short to become parents so soon... good luck

Answer 10

its this simple:

s***n + v****a = possibility for pregnancy.

it does not get any more difficult than that.

Answer 11

You can put your mind at ease. The chances of here getting pregnat from that are ZERO.

And yes...your little men were dead......

Answer 12

if both off you rinsed your  hand your girl friend is most deff n0tt qood luck though !

Answer 13

I don't think there is much chance at all.

I wouldn't worry about it, I think it's like a

one in a million chance. Just use soap and

wash your hands good before touching

anyones junk. Don't worry.

Answer 14

anything is possible. so be more careful next time.

Answer 15

She's not pregnant.

Answer 16

OK, I will tell you straight up man, she wont get pregnant, the s***n is dried, and therefor it is dead, you washed your hands, therefor the s***n is off whether or not you used soap. and don't listen to the comment above mine, he's just s******g with you man, she can't get pregnant, it's cool.

Answer 17

I'm sorry to tell you dude, but she is most definitely pregnant.

Answer 18

Shes pregnant! Sperm crawls!

Answer 19

Unless your fingers were sopping wet with your sperm, no chance that she is pregnant. If you are so concerned about the chances of pregnancy then I would seriously question whether or not you are aware of how to prevent it.

Answer 20

What precautions should you take next time?    Easy.   Wait until you grow up and get married to have s*x.   You're just asking for trouble.

Answer 21

more than likely shes not pregnant... its almost impossible unless you nutted on your fingers and shoved em inside her the second after.

Answer 22

Yes you can get pregnant - because often the excitment of the moment is that you did not realise that someone's fingers had a little traveller on it.

Moral of the story - do not fool around until you are old enough to be responsible for the consequences

Answer 23

LOL, ok how old are you guys?? Just curious, if you do not know about the birds and the bees you should not be playing around like this. Your sperm has to go quit a ways up in order to get to her egg. sperm on the sheets would have no factor, no way to enter the egg that way.

My advice: keep you hands, arms, and legs to yourself until you know exactly what you are doing. If you ever have actually intercourse WEAR A CONDOM.

Answer 24

You're just going to have to wait until she gets/misses her period to know for sure. If you don't want to have kids right now - stop having s*x! The only thing that is 100% effective against pregnancy is abstinence.

Answer 25

calm down, shes not gonna be pregnant?

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ur perinoind shes not pregant but nice job on getting the hj man

Answer 27

i fingerd myself and i got preggers , but im a man so it probably wouldnt matter to you , as long as you enjoyed it just kill the baby

Answer 28

The sperm need an aqueous environment to survive as long as you stated outside the body. It may or may not happen. I doubt it though.

Answer 29

wow! if you dont know the answer to that then you're too young to have sexual relations! no, she's not pregnant. maybe you should do some research before you mess around. go to planned parenthood and they'll fill you in. but you dont want an unplanned pregnancy, so if you are going to have s*x, make sure you're responcible. but judging from your question, you're too young to be having s*x anyway.

Answer 30

i'd start picking out names.

Answer 31

u redy here it goz sprm dies at a surten temp thats y u have a sack that shrinks . That gives the sprm wormth cuz its closer to your body so it duz not die ! Ok u wiped it off and wut ever u had left on u dryed + u rinst ur hands most likey cold water it died also u had 3 hours it dryed or died .