Hey
As I was growing up and throughout my younger years (im only 25 now) I always said I never wanted kids. Having been to a councellor (about my rough childhood) I realised the reason why.
I met my boyfriend over 5 years ago and he said he did want kids, i told him i didnt. But because I loved him, i tried to think about having kids, rather than just saying i didnt want them. i kind of changed my mind and decided I did want kids.
My boyfriend, then changed his mind and said he didnt. So i was a bit disappointed.
Anyway, yesterday he told me that he has decided he does want kids and I couldnt believe we were actually talking about it. I know im not ready yet, but how will i know when i am ready?? Do you just know?? or is it something you've just got to do and get through it.
Also, im worried about all the pregnancy things, like ive heard stories that you have a poo when you're giving birth..
And piles and such.. the nasty things.
Any help or advice?
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