Pregnancy question please help

Question

I have been with my b\f for a while and we are trying to have a baby we have been trying for a yr and it still not pregant we tried many different things please help any tips we really want a baby if you have any tips that will help please let me know thank you

Answer 1

maybe there is sumtin wrong u  should go see a OB/GYN an ur b.f should get a check up or sumtin

Answer 2

If you've seriously been trying, charting your cycles, using OPKs, etc., and you're not getting pregnant, then you need to speak to your GYN about the next steps to take.

You seem a bit young and immature to be worrying about this really.  Maybe it's a sign that you're not ready for a baby.

Answer 3

Try gettin married....

Answer 4

It does take time for some couples, over a year or more sometimes.  So, don't give up.  That's perfectly normal in some cases.

I'm not sure what you have tried and if you are trying to have s*x when you ovulate or what.  You didn't say.  I don't know if your period is irregular or regular.

An average woman's cycle is 28 days.  Which means it is 28 days between the start of her periods.  Ovulation usually occurs at the midpoint of the cycle. A 28 day cycle would have ovulation around the 14th day after you first start your period.  

Some women's cycles may be 30 days or more.  So, they would still ovulate midway between periods.  It may be the 15th or 16th day and so on.

If a woman has irregular periods--periods that aren't every 28 days or so. For example:  1 month it's 28 days, the next month is 35 days, then the next may be 40 days.   It makes it a little more difficult to pinpoint ovulation and become pregnant, because you don't know how the cycle will be for that particular month if it's never the same length each month consistently.

When ovulation occurs, one of the woman’s ovaries will release an egg, which will make its journey down the fallopian tube over a period of about 24 hours.

Within this 24 hour time frame is the optimum window opportunity for conception, but there are other variables. For instance, an egg will survive in the fallopian tubes for up to 2 days, so if intercourse takes place up to 2 days following ovulation, conception can still occur.

Also, if intercourse has occurred prior to ovulation, conception is still possible because sperm can wait in the fallopian tubes for 2 to 3 days, meaning that once the egg is released, it could already have sperm waiting for it.

Answer 5

I was off the pill for 6 years and "trying" for 2 before getting pregnant. The only thing I did differently was a Kundalini Yoga dvd. A journey through the chakras.

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I don't know why I just feel like it had everything to do with it.

Answer 6

My husband and I have been trying for a long time too.  Try ovulation sticks, but be sure to read the instructions.  I thought they read just like pregnancy tests, and we ended up having s*x at the wrong time in the cycle.  The 2nd line has to be darker than the control, not just show up.

Answer 7

Have s*x 4 times a day without a condom.

Answer 8

A doctor would be your best bet. Make sure both of you are able to have children. If that comes back good go at it like rabbits.

Answer 9

I believe that maybe you are trying to hard.  You have are trying this and that and every month hoping you are going to be pregnant.  Every month when your cycle comes you are disappointed.  Our bodies are sensitive to our emotions and you and your b/f can be your worst enemies because you are both putting pressure on yourselves and both being disappointed.

Trying not trying.  Through every method you have tried out the window.  Forget everything thing you have been told.  Throw away your calendar tracking ovulation and your cycles.  As hard as it is, try to give up for awhile and take the if it happens it does and if it doesn't oh well.  Maybe even plan a trip or activity you wouldn't have with trying to get pregnant.  Live your life as if you are not trying.  Don't talk about wanting to or wishing you could with friends, family or each other.  

Get a calendar for next year out and mark it for March or April 1.  You don't talk about wanting to have a baby until that date.  You will not see it until that date.  If on that date you are not pregnant, then you can maybe see a doctor.  Until that time, you put it out of your mind.

My sister and I have both had really good friends of ours go through this same thing.  Trying for over a year and nothing.  Once the put it completely out of their minds each was pregnant in less than 9 months.  One took only 2 months and the other 5 months.

Good Luck!!

Answer 10

I know there are certain food that can increase the estrogen in your body. Also if you were on birthcontrol before some of that stuff like deprovera may take up to a year to stop working.  You may want to try and fruit called wolfberries you can buy them at wholefoods also know as gijo berries.  They are suppose to increase indurance and your t-cells. Good Luck!

Answer 11

talk to your doc see if your b/f can get a sperm out by doing u know what and then have your doctor insert it to you.

Answer 12

Try spicing up you s*x life a bit.....  

Answer 13

Hi dear

i can give you advice what was working with me. If you don't have intercourse every other day. Then have intercourse when your perion completely stop, say" 8th, 10th 12, 14, 16,18th day after the 1st day of your last period. It took us just 3 months to get pregnant and i had a laparoskopy surgery because of the endometriosis, and i thought i wont get pregnant that easy. i just had s*x those days and my ovulation day was very painful, but we still do it. But everybody says you have to stop thinking about it!!! But....1st it's imposible if you want to get pregnant, and it was very imposible not to thinking about if i had that painful s*x. And i am 22 weeks pregnant now and i hope that you will be too soon. I can imagine how you can feel after a 1 year of trying to coinceive. Good luck!!!!!!

Answer 14

I would get married first so that the legal aspects, finances, last name, etc., is already sorted out and that you are a true parenting partnership.  If you can commit to having a baby, why not show that you can commit to one another first?

Honestly, there may be something in the back of your mind that stresses you about that just enough to keep you from conceiving.  

Think about it.  If you can't commit to one another, it would be tough to commit to raising a baby together.

Answer 15

Have you tried a visit to the doctor? Maybe one of you have a condition that makes you unable.

Answer 16

well, try s*x positions with deeper penatration...like doggy ^_^

Answer 17

ok  so  .....  

look   do not worry about it  i have  been  trying to  get  pregnant for  over a year.  the  best thing    you   should  do  is   forget  about  it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   the  more you   thick  about it  is bad , i my self have  been   taking it  easy  not   worrying about  it .  i   use  to  not  ovulate   but than  i  relax my  self and  i  started  to   ovulate :) ,   like  i see  EGG White  cervical  mucus sooooo  thats  :)super  good   for  me .   so  i  recommended  you  to  STOP  thinking about it :)   take care  and  w/b  

Answer 18

Take a vacation and forget about getting pregnant.  When you relax and get it out of your mind and just have fun, it'll then happen.