Pregnancy symptoms? please advise :)?

Question

I did ask this question last week but i did not get many answers. sorry if it is very long to read but i want to add as much detail as i can to egt proper answers.

i am 21 years old and have been married for 4 months now. i was a virgin untill marriage. my periods have always been regular until i started having s*x but then 3 they settled down on the 2nd month.

now this is the thing. i am not good at keeping a diary of the dates i have my periods and as they have always been spot on 1month exactly i dont worry too much. my husband always puts on a condom for s*x and checks it afterwards. we have never detected a break in the condom.

3 weeks ago i suddenly had no libido. no desire for s*x at all. i thought it was because i would get my periods soon. my period symptoms are pretty spot on to. i suddeny need to rid my bowels of my dinner and i get wind. this happened to plan only, 1 and a hallf weeks ago it dissapeared.

now starting mid last week i have had period like cramping in my abdomen, my breats are very tender (i get sore b*****s with periods but not this bad!) 2 weeks ago i woke up in the middle of the night feeling like i was going to throw up. i have not felt like throwing up since. i still dont want s*x.

i am one of those women who NEED to have a baby. i see parents everywhere and it is depressing. i read about prgnancy symptoms last week and i seem to have quite a few. sore b*****s, frequent urination, constipation etc. and no period.

i am very confused about my body right now. could i be pregnant or could i just be feeling a phantom pregnancy?

my ovaries and b*****s hurt the most at night when im tryign to sleep. i cant sleep on my tummy because they hurt.

can i please get as many women's comments as i can pelase?

thank you so much :)

Answer 1

I am having close to the same symptoms and think I may be pregnant too but it's too early to test.

My b*****s are sore and when I say on them I move not because it's severe pain but because it's not real comfortable.

I am urinating a little more than normal and have been a little more tired than usual.

I just thought maybe my symptoms would help you, I've been told that the best way to detect pregnancy is to take the test but I did read to wait until you miss a period first. Good luck.  

Answer 2

I slept thru the first 3 months of both pregnancies, seriously needed naps, never had any cramps like that and was fortunate enough to only get sick  1 time right at the end with the first one, your symptoms sound like possible a urinary tract infection, but I would certainly go to Dr especially if you are only using condoms, a blood test will confirm and  one thing to always remember, go to bathroom to urinate after s*x whether you feel the urge or not, or you will get a UTI

Answer 3

It sounds like you could be pregnant. I would take a HPT to be sure or go to the doc and get a test.  You are 21 years old and I'm sorry if this is mean but you do not NEED a baby. If you want to have a baby to "fit it" then obviously you don't understand what it really means to have a child.