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Pregnant, Yes no Maybe I dont know??? any advice?

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So on tuesday my gf told me she might be pregnant, we never had s*x till may 23rd (my first time ever) twice on may 24th and again on May31st, she said she felt sick almost throwing up everyday, since May29th, She 100%ly hasnt been with anyone, i know it for a fact, Also she has been on the 3 month shot birth controly thingy depo???? for alittle over 3 years and had a abrotion right before she started the shots. we got 3 tests today and they all came back negative, but is it early to be able ot tell if she is or not or am i just over worrying? Plus i asked her if she missed her period and she told me she doesnt know when she has it cuase the shot makes her have no blood at all. An dont get me wrong i still love her and if she is then ill be there for her, but not knowing is killing me, any help would be awesome and thanks for looking

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  1. your stupid kid vomiting and missed period is side effects of the shot got it and they give you a list of side effects and that is them. okay first of all if you get negative results your not pregnant okay plus she's been on the shot 3 years if she's pregnant which she's not she would miscarry or never be able to get pregnant in the first place after a year the shot stops your periods all together from the hormones given off by the shot.

    okay tell your girl to shut the f*u*c*k up and stop whining you took pregnancy tests and they come up negative do you want her to get pregnant ? if so get her off the shot . The shot make's you fill like your pregnant because of the meds from the shot but your really not why has she been on it 3years? been around the block a few times.

    okay why so you care anyways just get another abortion right?


  2. 1st stop asking this question because you are obviouly not getting the answer you want. Secondly if the test she took did not ease your mind go to the doctor

  3. If she is getting the depo shot then she probably won't have any periods.  What you have to do is start counting out days since the first day of her last period.  This is what you need to know.  1st....when you had s*x, was it between 14 and 17 days since the first day of her last menstral period (lmp)? 2nd....how long is her usual cycle? 28 days?  30 days???  count however many days it has been since the first day of her lmp.  If it has been more than the usual then trust that the test is accurate and that she isn't pregnant.  if it hasn't then wait until is and retest.  When you get the depo shot, there are times when there is a surge in the hormones.  This can contribute to such things as nausea, breast tenderness, tiredness.  For you safety, you should always use a back up method.  Nothing is completely safe (with the exception of abstaining).  Unless you think you are ready to be a dad.

    Just incase you think you might be ready to be a dad...let me tell you something no one ever told me.....it is not instinct to run to the restroom when you have to vomit.  You have to teach a child to do that.  It takes a long time for them make it all the way there consistantly.  Years! Like 7 as is the case with my daughter.  Think about that!  Seven years of cleaning up vomit.  You and your girlfriend want to have s*x now?

    good luck!:)

  4. It is to soon for a correct reading from a test!! Find out if her breast are tender, and if hew throw up is yellow, those are big signs...but than again everyone is different!!

  5. No birth control method is 100% - I also had a child while I had been on DEPO - Since it is so early I would recommend that you have your GF take more test in about 10 days and if you are still not sure there are clinics that you can go to and she can have a blood test to know for sure.  Good luck

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