My mom lives in Canada and I live here in the US. She wants to come live in our tiny place for five months, shortly before and after our baby is born. I love her dearly, but it is going to be so stressful having her there I almost don't want her to come until after the baby is born and then, only for two weeks. She's already confessed to me last night she's worried I might say no to her coming for five months, but she is very insistent, saying it's her first and only grandchild and no one is going to rob her of that time. I had no idea what to say because she only hears what she wants sometimes. I recovered last year from a severe bout of depression and when she came to visit it was so stressful to have her there, questioning why I let my dogs in the house, why this, why that, you should do it this way, let me move your furniture, tell your husband this, (right in front of him). My husband is very respectful around her, and tells me whatever I'm comfortable with, he will go for.. but he knows I am not keen on this. Sometimes I fear the worst with my mom, but I don't want to feel like I can't relax in my own house. Any thoughts anyone who has been through something similar? Thank you & God bless.
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