Pregnant, teen can you help? ?

Question

I really want to be pregnant but im only 15 what should i do and what does this mean?

Answer 1

Lots of girls love babies, and its fine that you want to have one....but wait. It doesn't mean anything wrong, just that you want to be a mom.  For the mean time, just enjoy not having major responsibilities, do well in school, get a good job, and then think about it.

Answer 2

You should wait until you can provide for the child yourself.It's not fair to make your parents or tax payers pay for your kid.Don't be selfish.

Answer 3

you wont be able to sleep in anymore. you wont be able to always go out with  friends or enjoy school dances and possibly miss out on prom. you most likely are lacking proper knowledge of baby care, and basically you should think about all of that stuff before you really want a baby anymoreeee.

Answer 4

Listen, I'm going to say a lot to you here.

You are 15 years old and at 15, what type of a mother do you think you could really be? What type of mother do you think you could be, if you waited,  in 5 or 10 years?

There is a big difference between taking care of a child for a couple of hours an taking care of him/her for 24 hours in a day, 7 days a week, for at least 18 years.

You need to get an education. This can be down while having a child however, it will be 10 times more difficult. You will lose a lot of sleep with a baby, put that on top of trying to study and homework and needing to work because babies aren't free, they need clothes, diapers, food, housing, etc.

You may be one that decides you won't go to school, which means you would be depending on other people to help with your living expenses, costs of raising your child, etc. because without a high school degree, you'll be making minimum wage which will barely cover paying your rent, let alone anything else.

Now, if you waited to have a child, you can finish your high school degree, perhaps go to a university, graduate from there, get some experience in your work field, perhaps travel a little, have a chance to grow up and mature a lot more, undersand what responsibilities are, save up for a home, get married and have a baby. You would be able  

to provide a much better, more stable and loving enviornment for your child.

Let's also take a look at another fact. You're young and most kids your age like to hang out with friends, party later on, etc. An impossibility when toting a young one around with you. Your friends may think at the beginning, "Oh, how cute, a baby" but when that child develops colic and won't stop crying for hours or gets an ear infection and is crabby as all get out, the novelty of the baby will wear off real quick. You will be stuck at home, trying to be a mother, getting frustrated at watching all of your friends lead a normal teen life, getting great opprtunities to suceed at things you can't because your responsibility is with your child, having fun, dating. Your going to end up regretting having the baby.

Or, you could be like some other teen moms, that when the novelty wears off, you dump the child onto your parents because you realize, after the fact, that you can't handle it.

Wait a long time before venturing into mother hood. There isn't any rush and only a megatude of problems that can arise from getting pregnant too young.

Answer 5

It pretty much means that you're normal. Most teenage girls have wanted a baby at some point. Take my advice, don't get pregnant. I'm 15 and pregnant, and honestly, it sounds like a lot more fun than it is. Enjoy your freedom while you can.  

Answer 6

worst mistake ever

My cosian's Girlfriend was 16 and had a baby

My cosian now has 2 jobs and gose to school everyday

and his Girlfriend she had to go to cyber school so she could car for her child and in collage her mom watched the baby

Now they are both 20 and they are not allwed to stay with frineds for a long tome go to movies they have to wake up early. and they have to pay for baby clothes and baby food. her parents pay for the doctor bills but they have not a big social life becuse of the baby

Think twice about all the work please  

Answer 7

When i was 15, i feel the same way too. I wanted to have a baby early so that when i reach 30 i will have a child who will look like my sister or brother and that was so cool for me way back then.However, i did not pursue it because i may destroy the future of my child and if the baby will have a baby, what will happen? You're young, enjoy first without baggage. When you'll get mature, you will just laugh about that idea..

Answer 8

It means you only want a baby because you think they are cute, and want to dress them up.

Go to someone who has a baby, ask to watch him/her for an hour or two. Then see how you feel...

Answer 9

if your only 15 years old wait atleast 3 more years {if possible} until your 18 that way you dont feel as if youve missed out on the life you could have had because once a baby is hear its going to depend on you and you'll have to make sacrifices for it. If you plan on college I would wait until after youve finished or are atleast almost through it.

Answer 10

First off you shouldn't get pregnant at 15. Being pregnant is crazy on your body and would be worse on you because yours is still growing. And your not ready for baby, have fun and get through school. Hang out with people who have babies and help them out if you really want to be around a baby.

Answer 11

hahahahaha WHAT ?! YOUR 15!!

Answer 12

Generally a need to be pregnant at a very young age is due to environmental stressors, most frequently, the feeling of being unloved, unwanted or alone. It also can come up if you know someone who is pregnant. It is a normal feeling to want a child, it is not advised to actually get pregnant. Get a pet. Honestly, it sounds foolish but get a pet that depends on you - ferrets, rabbits, dogs, cats and parrots are great pets that can be trained and show affection towards their owners. These of course are not the only pets available but they are the ones that will return your love.  

Answer 13

your far too young to be having or even considering a baby, you havent left school yet and haven't really thought about the full impact that it would have on your life,

you have the rest of your life ahead of you and there is plenty of time in the future to have a baby and settle down, but for now concentrate on school and just have fun with your friends,

i think you'd regret the decision to have a baby and you'll miss out on so much in your teenage life.