Pregnant and boyfriend lives in another state, help!

Question

so...i'm pregnant (and very happy about it!). i had gotten pregnant before i got taken away by my parents to oregon and i just found out last week that i was pregnant...and my boyfriend is in California! my boyfriend and i really want to have the baby but my dad is a jerk and we're scared that he wont let me return to California to be with my boyfriend. i'm also really scared that when i tell my dad he's going to hurt me and kill my baby or try and force me to get an abortion. first of all i want your opinion on something...do you think that it would be the best for my dad to let me go home and be with my boyfriend so we can be there together through the pregnancy and with the baby? or do you think that it would be right for my dad to force me to stay here? also what do i do?! i'm having such a hard time gathering courage to tell my parents...any advice?

please help!

Answer 1

It would help me to know how old you are

Answer 2

if you are under 18...your dad is not going to let you go back...if you fear he will hurt you you need to talk to a couselor and they can keep you safe.

Answer 3

Awww......beg him and don't get a abortion!

Answer 4

Call 1-800-395-HELP to talk to a pregnancy counselor before telling your parents.  If you're right about your dad's reaction, you'll want to have supportive adults on your side.  Legally, he cannot make you get an abortion, but unfortunately parents threaten and cajole their daughters into it all the time.  Make sure you know what your rights are.

<3 Kelsey