Pregnant and found out he's cheating!!!?

Question

So I got pregnant like two weeks ago, I found out he had another girl that same night. Its been two weeks and he says he wants nothing to do with it, he doesnt care about me at all, he really likes the other girl. And he doesnt want her to find out about me. So I should basically just go away. I am very miserable, it is a horrible feeling carrying this mans baby. Any suggestions would be great.

Answer 1

Get an abortion and get on with your life.

Answer 2

i am so sorry for you. But you know what you can do find a better men that is going to love you more than ever. You go talk to that girl she is probably another of a little *****. I think you are a better women never give up ever.I really hope i helped i feel sorry really sorry for you oh and good luck.

Answer 3

If you keep the baby he will have responsibility to pay child support. You can get the courts to order a paternity test and order him to pay. He is trying to get out of a situation of his own making. Consult a lawyer and see what your rights are. I guess abortion and adoption could be considered but I'm not sure what your feelings are on either of those options.

Answer 4

Er don't have the baby. Is that an option? Sorry but why be tied to a loser forever? Do you want to have this person's child??? :(

Answer 5

ok... ummm best thing to do , is to have an abortion because u will have no future with that man anymore and ur baby will have no dad and it is very hard... and hard for u to raise up that kid as a single mother and anyway... he will want to see his baby wen the baby is born soo it is really hard to always see him comin down for ur baby not for u....  

Answer 6

i am so sorry! *hugs* that is terrible. seems like you fell in love but he just wanted s*x and now youre pregnant he wants no responsibility! dump him hes terrible for doing this. you deserve better, have th ebaby or give it up for adoption and youll find a good man who will love u later. have a  good night and dont be sad!!  

Answer 7

LOOK THE GUY IS A REAL LOOSER,AND I DONT CARE WHAT HE SAYS HIS GF NEEDS TO NO ABOUT U N THE BABY,,CAUSE HE DID THIS TO YOU,HE WILL DO IT TO ANOTHER GIRL,,AND AFTER U HAVE THIS BABY U GET OUT THERE N FIND YOU A DECENT GUY,,WHO WILL LOVE ONLY U N RESPECT YOU,,HIS OUT THERE U JUST HAVE TO FIND HIM,,AND REMEMBER "WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND"AND HE WILL GET  A LOT OF BAD KARMA COME HIS WAY,,PEACE

Answer 8

he he swallow your pride for just a little while, seduce him just once more and when he is naked and not looking go all JOHN WAYNE BOBBIT on him lol. then you might get his attention lol

Answer 9

Does he know you are having his baby???

Answer 10

Well, if you have another man in mind that you like and believe he is really good and will make a great father and husband then go for him. Maybe you should develop a relationship with a man you are interested in, of course, do not make the same mistake as you did with this one, please make sure his the right one.

Good luck sweety and stay strong! :)

Answer 11

u r strong enough raise the baby well thats me cause i dont would have a abortion and leave him alone ...i'm just saying thats wat i would do i would never contact him and handle everything myself  ^^ dont let the baby feel like he/she should have never been born ^^ good luck

Answer 12

what a piece of f**king sh*t who does he think he is.. what a loser.. i am so sori ur in such a terrible position.. but think urself lucky u r still in a position to choose to have a connection with him..or loose it for good.. hes a drop kick.. make sure u tell the other woman.. he doesnt deserve to get away scott free to be happy in the other relationship.. ASSH*LE!!

Answer 13

Well, talk to the girl, let her know what she's done. Give her the guilt trip, maybe she'll dump him and if he comes crawling back to you do what your heart tells you, Personally I'll send him packing :)

Answer 14

You don't really have a choice, because he already ended the relationship.  You can't be with someone that doesn't want to be with you.  It's really sad, but you are learning a lesson that you'll never forget.  YOU SHOULD NEVER GET PREGNANT UNLESS YOU'RE MARRIED FOR AT LEAST A YEAR AND YOU BOTH MAKE A DECISION THAT YOU WANT TO RAISE A FAMILY!   Now you and the baby will suffer, because he gets to run off and get some other woman pregnant, because she also has no idea how to have an excellent relationship!

The only thing I would suggest is to stop the pregnancy and move on.  I hate like h**l to suggest that, but that's what I would do.  The guy is a loser and a failure.  You can't be with any guy that doesn't show you his love, respect, trust, communication and always making you happy.

Good Luck

Answer 15

First off I would go away because he is a looser and does not deserve you.  However I would not let him get away with moving on with another girl and doing the same to her.  I would defiantly make sure she knows what he did because he will probably do the same to her....

Answer 16

keep that baby and make that man pay!  so what if he doesn't want his girl to find out...  you give birth to that baby and go for child support...!  that baby deserves to see it's mother one day, so, you get help from the state, child support, etc...!  don't let him make you feel like c**p!

I have a 10 year old daughter, he told me he wanted nothing to do with her...  and he meant it, because to this day, he has not seen her, except for the blood test, that's law now if you are single and not married and father's name is not on the birth certificate...  in USA...

I get child support for her, though  =)  but, he didn't show up at the birth, or anything...!

So, you move on with your life, don't make him tell you get an abortion or anything...you do what's right...  bring up that baby without him...

I don't believe in abortion, adoption, well, that's your choice, but, from experience, I know you can do it on your own =)

Good Luck!

Answer 17

wow what a lame ***,  well if you are going full term with this baby then you need to concentrate on  it and becoming a mother.  and If I was you i would go to court and get Child support for your kid.  If he does not want to have anything to do with the kid then that fine but he is obligated to pay you child support.  As far as the relationship with him maybe you should concentrate on the baby for now and after birth then look at what direction you might want to take.  

Answer 18

If you know he wants nothing to do with you the best thing to do is focus on what you want to do about the baby and where you want your life to go. I am not going to say get rid of it and I am not going to say keep it you have to decided depending on your age and how far you are along in your life has a lot to do with how this will affect it. So you need to think what is best for you. Just don't waste your time thinking about this guy.