Pregnant and not sure what to do?

Question

About a month ago I asked a question here about that I might be pregnant with someone Else's baby. Well after all the advice here I told Pregnantmy husband he was very angry but we both thought might be able to work through it. Lets just say that lasted a couple weeks and then he threw me out of the house my parents won't speak with me either. Have been living out of my car for past few days and using a library computer to post this. I know that it was a mistake what did but now don't know what to do am about 3 months along but now really think should pregnancypregnacy but can that be done this far along? I have very little money and really no where to live. Dont even ask where I have gotten the money I do hembarrassingarassing what have already done just so could have money to eat for the past few days.

Answer 1

your question is a little hard to understand but you need to go to a clinic and they can help you with your options or help you with a place to live find a planned parenthood they are everywhere and they are really helpful what ever you do you need to do it soon get some help asap because if you decide not to have this baby you have little time to make that choice still and if you are going to have this bay you cannot be living on the streets !! go now hurry  

Answer 2

you need to go to a shelter. they will feed you and let you sleep there.

Answer 3

If you have no friends you can stay with, try a local women's shelter or Salvation Army.   They can at least give you some direction.   If you are thinking of terminating the pregnancy, get to a Planned Parenthood right away and they can advise you.  Or, if you want to go through the pregnancy, find Catholic services in the phone book.   They will know about adoption options.

It sounds like you are really on your own, but don't panic.   There are people who can help, you just need to find them.    

Answer 4

i'm with no i don't that is what i would do  

Answer 5

You poor thing :( I wish I could help. We all make mistakes and its horrible when they lead to these things.

Pregnancy can be terminated this far along but its more expensive and more risky. My advice to you would be to find a family shelter, they will help you. I wish I could give you more help on that but I'm not quite sure where bouts you are in this world. You can find family help/shelter information online. Its the best thing to do atm honey, just get yourself somewhere safe and make sure you don't have to do horrible things for money.

Once you've done that I'd think long and hard about whether or not you want to keep this baby. Personally I'd tell you to keep the baby. I terminated my pregnancy 14 weeks along and it was the hardest decision I ever had to make. I still constantly think about my baby and it was over a year ago! Although I made the right choice (I was 18 and hated the ******** father) I will always regret it.

So first, help yourself as soon as possible. The sooner the more options you have! And once you've got yourself in a friendly environment, think about it ok?

Hope it all works out for you!  

Answer 6

I'm sorry. I'll be mean and say that is what you asked for and that is what you received. Your actions of having unprotected s*x with another man have brought this in your lap. You have to find your way out of it. The poor baby will have a life of sorrow. Try giving it up for adoption to a family that can emotionally help it.  

Answer 7

my suggestion- find an adoption agency. They will help you with shelter and food. Give the baby to a family where it is wanted and will be cared for.

It is the most selfless act.  

Answer 8

You need help but it's not the end of the world yet you can talk with someone also I saw were someone said you can kill the baby but if you do that you will be more wrong there are a lot of men and women who would like to have kids but can't.  Just give that some thought.

Answer 9

Go find a shelter, and try to apologize to yo husband

Answer 10

First you need to go to a shelter. What state do you live in? You are not in as bad of a shape as you think you are at this time.

http://www.ibiblio.org/rcip/women.html

Not knowing what area you are in I'm not for sure where to tell you to go to.....The library where you are at can send you in the right direction.  

Answer 11

You need to go see a doctor. You need prenatal care. Then you need to go find a shelter. You can not do this while living on the streets. You need help.

Answer 12

I think you should find a counselor to speak to, instead of spending your time on a computer asking strangers that can  offer you little to none advice for the situation you are in.Good luck, i hope you and your baby get help soon.

Answer 13

Where is the true father of the baby?

Try talking to your parents again.  parents won't let their daughter sleep in the car especially when she is carrying their grandchild.  They may be mad, but it will go away.

Answer 14

Were is the other prospective farther why don't you ask him for help.