Pregnant at 15!?

Question

guys help me i need it so bad i just got pregnant and i havent told my mom yet. or dad. i need all the help and advice i can get. should i just tell my mom? get an abortion with out her knowing? or have the baby and run away? helpp! should i see a doctor? but the only problem with that is they might have to talk to my parents. im scared shitless.

Answer 1

deffinaletly tell your parents running away is never the answer and an abortion is defffff not good plz dont do that. just tell you mom she will probably not hate you or anything as you think but it would be worse if you didnt

Answer 2

You have to talk to your mom, and she will help you best.

Running away won't solve anything.

Answer 3

rheanne you are so stupid whyy?!??! who is the father of this poor child i have to knoww? mom and dad are gooing to killll you!!!! i'd probably would run away that way i can have your room. muahahahaha..

best of luckk. YOUR younger sisterr.

oh yeah have the baby that way i can be an aunt.

Answer 4

USE A CONDOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God this makes me mad to no end...abortion is not birth control. You cannot get an abortion without telling you mom, tell her.

Answer 5

just tell her i know your parents are going to help you i had a baby when i was 15 too now I'm 22 and have 2 more i so happy with them trust me just talk to her she will understand good luck

Answer 6

talk 2 ur mom!!!!!!!!!! she'll help u figure out what 2 do. remember u will always b ur moms baby.................she will always love u. dont try 2 do it on ur own. Good Luck & God Bless!

Answer 7

Do you trust your parents?  Will they hurt you if they find out or will they help you?  You know them better than anyone answering here does.  If you are afraid to tell them, is there another family member you can talk to?  If not - I would suggest finding a Planned Parenthood clinic and going there to talk to someone anonymously - Tell them you don't want to give your name, but you need advice.

Answer 8

Man, it sounds like you must be going through such a hard time, sweetie. It sounds to me like you are just scared of what your parents will think, or others as well. You will probably be surprised at your parents' reactions; you never know until you tell them.

The thing about abortion... is that it never changes the fact that you were a mom, or that you have a child. It only changes whether or not that child will be in this world.

If you are almost a week late, your child already has a heartbeat, and your blood running through their body...that child is a part of you, and you are a part of that child. Abortion can lead to serious medical and psychological problems. Especially since you are already doubting whether or not you should have an abortion...this will certainly mean you would have regrets later.

Go to a crisis pregnancy center. Where are you located? I can help you find one close to you. They provide free sonograms for verification of a progressing pregnancy, counseling, help with telling your parents, and tons of baby items and so much more.

E-mail me and I can help you find a center, or I am here to talk. I got pregnant at 19, and I was so scared to tell my parents and of what people would think, but now I have a beautiful three month old baby, who my parents and everyone adore! I cannot imagine my life without my baby :)

The Lord said, "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart..." -Jeremiah 1:5

And, here is a video on abortion as well:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=qJzSiAPXTiQ&f...

Please take time to make your decision above all else...there is no hurry. And do not let the voices of the world sway you... NO ONE can make this decision for you. Not your parents, not what others think, not your friends, not a doctor, not someone on Yahoo answers... only you.

God Bless you and your baby. I will be praying for you.

Answer 9

you have to tell ur parents!!!!! It's ur decision but i would not get an abortion if i were u. Your parents will always love you no matter what you get into. After you tell her you should deffinetley see a doctor. The best of luck to u and ur baby!

Answer 10

tell your parents and let them help you.  DO NOT GET AN ABORTION it will haunt you the rest of your life, you will regret it, and there are major risks involved including increased risk of breast cancer.  If you decide to place the baby for adoption (which seems best in this situation)  I would love your baby (I already have three of my own) and I have friends that are desperate for a baby and can't have one.  Remember that your baby, while difficult for you,will be the greatest gift an adoptive couple will ever receive.  Turn this mistake into something beautiful.

Answer 11

running away is not gonna solve the problem and having an abortion is not gonna save the baby life either. what u really need to do is talk to your parents right away. I am pretty sure if they see what is going on, they might help you with the baby