Pregnant by ex....?

Question

i'm 9 weeks pregnant with my ex fiance's baby. I admit I still love him and I would like to have him back in my life for my baby and me. It's been a little over a month and he has a girlfriend or so thats what they tell me, but she gets upset when I make any type of contact with him no matter what it is. One night out of the blue she txts me callin me a hater and a gangsta cuz i said it was hopeless for a broad to do stuff to prove a hopeless point. I thinks she's mad at me for what I have no idea, I think he may have said something to her she didn't like about me and our child. Some of the things she said made it look like she was jealous and she was sneaking around on his phone texting me those things, she also threatened me and called me out of my name. Do you think she's jealous or just wants attention. How do I handle this? I really want to make it work between me and him also...HELP

He says he will be involved in his childs life and be there at the birth

Answer 1

I'm kind of in the same thing but my ex doesn't have a new girl. it is more like is family getting in the way. i say do what ever you can to just let him know that you are pregnant. don't force him to be with you and don't say anything about the girlfriend. eventually he will start realizing that it ain't about him no more or even about you it is now all about the baby. so don't try to fix the relationship. just make sure that the baby will have a mother and father figure in its life. i at one point was thinking about having an abortion but now I'm 30 weeks and I'm so happy that i didn't go through with it cause my ex is starting to come through and starting to finally show some love not just for the baby but for me as well.

just remember don't force him and ignore her.

good luck with the baby

Answer 2

His girlfriend has nothing to do with you being pregnant

I would call him at work, and tell him over the phone

Let him make the decision after that what to do

Answer 3

Ignore the girl. Forget about the father [in a romantic relationship sense] because he doesn't seem worth the time. Build a good enough relationship with the father so that you two can raise the baby together on good terms.

Answer 4

Sounds like you ex has filled this girls head with lies.

I am sure he puts on a show for his new g/f, tell her you trapped him and such.

Then he turns around and "supports" you.

I would get the idea of a happy reunion out of your head because he obviously doesn't respect you.

"Sneaking around texting you", he KNOWS she is texting you. Don't pretend to be blind.

He is letting some trashy girl sabatoge your relationship together.

I suggest reading "He is just not in to you", because he isn't.

Answer 5

forget about the chic. I find the best way to deal with people who are being dumb is to ignore them. dont be rude, be polite but dont give in to her taunts. deal with the childs father, inform him on whats going on. dont raise your voice to argue.

Answer 6

Find out when hes home and go to his house and tell him you still love him. His girlfriend is probably jealous.